bluebabe_95 Posted November 8, 2006 Posted November 8, 2006 So I have been going out with this guy for 3 weeks but he called it off last night. He said that he was not into me like I am into him. It bothers him that he doesn't miss me a lot. Take note that we see each other everyday. I was sad and hurt because I like this guy but what can I do, right? I can't force myself into someone who's not interested in me. However, he started crying while we were on the phone last night and told me that he'll miss me. It's too conflicting. I will miss him definitely because I thought we had something good going on. Just wanted to lay this out as it has been bothering me. Thanks for listening.
Art_Critic Posted November 8, 2006 Posted November 8, 2006 he started crying while we were on the phone last night Any guy that you have only been dating for 3 weeks starts crying then that should be a sign to you that he has more problems than not being into you. Consider yourself lucky.. this guy was going to be an emotional leach and he saved you the headache. By the way.. he needs to have his man card pulled as well..
Kamille Posted November 8, 2006 Posted November 8, 2006 By the way.. he needs to have his man card pulled as well.. Real men! we want real men! Ok, I'll settle for one real man. just one. one is all I need. sorry bluebabe, that is really frustrating. But hey, you do deserve someone who is totally there. And Art critic is right about the crying. It sounds phony to me, like the tears was his way of expressing his guilt over it and not him actually being there for you. Don't be duped by tears.
Author bluebabe_95 Posted November 8, 2006 Author Posted November 8, 2006 Thanks Art Critic and Kamille. I'm not totally depressed or anything. I would be lying if I say I'm not affected because I like him but I will not beg nor try to win him back. It's his decision and maybe he does have bigger problems in life. Saved me a heck of emotion investments. I just did not see this coming that's all. Oh well, i've been through worse relationships so I know I can get over him. it's only been 3 weeks anyway. But writing the emotions out really helps a lot. Thank you.
Recommended Posts