Author BenThereDunThat Posted November 9, 2006 Author Posted November 9, 2006 It's worse than I thought. You're getting turned on? Magic, are you drunk???
magichands Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Magic, are you drunk??? No...but I want to play on the swings.
Pyro Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 It's worse than I thought. You're getting turned on? Not that kind of arise.......
Author BenThereDunThat Posted November 9, 2006 Author Posted November 9, 2006 I can understand how you feel. You would love nothing more than for him to have that smile wiped off his face. You are letting him beat you by you getting arise out of what he does. If you really want to get over this guy and this chapter in your life, you need to stop worrying about him and what he does and you need to worry about yourself. I believe in karma and I bet that he will get what is coming to him. In the meantime, you stop worrying about this guy and do your own thing. Thank you. That's it exactly - I want that smile wiped of his smug face. I know it's wrong for me, to let him get to me so badly. I have got to get out of my own head! I wish life were like cartoons and you could just throw someone in a box and ship them to Guam or some remote place.
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 BTDT, It sounds like you are in the ANGER stage. You simply cannot tolerate his presence any more. He disgusts you and it boils your blood to think that you've trusted so much in him. You'll get over this. But you need to stop being so negative with yourself and hurting yourself. Just let it go. There will come a time when him standing next to you on the elevator will not make you uncomfortable.
Pyro Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Thank you. That's it exactly - I want that smile wiped of his smug face. I know it's wrong for me, to let him get to me so badly. I have got to get out of my own head! I wish life were like cartoons and you could just throw someone in a box and ship them to Guam or some remote place. Your welcome. I get that feeling too. I wish I could stuff some people in boxes too. So stop letting him get to you. Keep your mind occupied. Waste your afternoon and evenings away on LS, or do I dare to say it........cleaning always keeps my mind occupied.
magichands Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 cleaning always keeps my mind occupied. Nothing like a nice vacuum to remind you how much life sucks.
Pyro Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Nothing like a nice vacuum to remind you how much life sucks. That was the funniest thing I have heard today. Although it reminds me of Scary Movie 1.
herenow Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 You say that he got off scot-free and his life was unaffected. The truth is that you got off scot-free. Your affair was never discovered, so you don't have to deal with the pain that comes with that. If people knew about the affair, you would be just as affected if not worse than him. Co-workers, friends and family would look at you in a very different light. They would rightfully think you were just as responsible for the affair as he was. If you think you are uncomfortable at work now, just think about if everyone around you knew what happened. He did not get off scot-free. He is still in a marriage that has problems that have not been addressed. Chances are, he will find someone else to fill his needs and he won't never deal with those problems until he gets caught. You are able to move on and hopefully next time you will date single available guys.
Author BenThereDunThat Posted November 9, 2006 Author Posted November 9, 2006 You say that he got off scot-free and his life was unaffected. The truth is that you got off scot-free. Your affair was never discovered, so you don't have to deal with the pain that comes with that. If people knew about the affair, you would be just as affected if not worse than him. Co-workers, friends and family would look at you in a very different light. They would rightfully think you were just as responsible for the affair as he was. If you think you are uncomfortable at work now, just think about if everyone around you knew what happened. He did not get off scot-free. He is still in a marriage that has problems that have not been addressed. Chances are, he will find someone else to fill his needs and he won't never deal with those problems until he gets caught. You are able to move on and hopefully next time you will date single available guys. You're right there. I did get off scot-free in a lot of ways. There is no "hopefully" about next time.... I hope you didn't mean that as if I just casually date MMs.
magichands Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 I hope you didn't mean that as if I just casually date MMs. Don't take offence...we know you only select the best of the bunch.
herenow Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 You're right there. I did get off scot-free in a lot of ways. There is no "hopefully" about next time.... I hope you didn't mean that as if I just casually date MMs. No, I have a feeling that you have learned from this experience. I am trying to look at bad things that happen as opportunities for me to learn from and not make the same mistake again. I'm sure you will do the same.
Author BenThereDunThat Posted November 9, 2006 Author Posted November 9, 2006 Your welcome. I get that feeling too. I wish I could stuff some people in boxes too. So stop letting him get to you. Keep your mind occupied. Waste your afternoon and evenings away on LS, or do I dare to say it........cleaning always keeps my mind occupied. You're such a task master! How about if I just hire some hot, young stud to come clean for me? That will definitely keep my mind occupied!
Author BenThereDunThat Posted November 9, 2006 Author Posted November 9, 2006 Don't take offence...we know you only select the best of the bunch. *sigh*...we all have our crosses to bear in life and Magic, I'm starting to think you're mine!
magichands Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 How about if I just hire some hot, young stud to come clean for me? That will definitely keep my mind occupied! Is he going to groom you like a cat?! Make sure he pays special attention to those "hard to reach" areas.
magichands Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 *sigh*...we all have our crosses to bear in life and Magic, I'm starting to think you're mine! Bear me front-on...that's my advice.
Author BenThereDunThat Posted November 9, 2006 Author Posted November 9, 2006 is it possible to be a warm-hearted witch? Good question. How would that work exactly? "Here, let me put this pillow on the floor so you have something soft to land on when I knock you on your a**"....?
Author BenThereDunThat Posted November 9, 2006 Author Posted November 9, 2006 Is he going to groom you like a cat?! Make sure he pays special attention to those "hard to reach" areas. Cut it out. I have a feeling I'm at the beginning of what will probably turn out to be a looooong dry spell.
magichands Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Cut it out. I have a feeling I'm at the beginning of what will probably turn out to be a looooong dry spell. Well...if you ever get really, really frustrated, then I want you to remember that I am willing to help you out with that. By reminding you that things weren't really that bad with MM. He'll probably be pining for you for some time yet.
Author BenThereDunThat Posted November 9, 2006 Author Posted November 9, 2006 Well...if you ever get really, really frustrated, then I want you to remember that I am willing to help you out with that. By reminding you that things weren't really that bad with MM. He'll probably be pining for you for some time yet. Oh, you ARE a funny one....
herenow Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Oh, you ARE a funny one.... magichands is right. If the MM feels that he can get what he wants from you, he will take it. but that won't happen will it?
Author BenThereDunThat Posted November 9, 2006 Author Posted November 9, 2006 magichands is right. If the MM feels that he can get what he wants from you, he will take it. but that won't happen will it? Good lord no! You gotta know how to read Magic's posts - his tongue is always firmly planted in his cheek...
Touche Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 Good lord no! You gotta know how to read Magic's posts - his tongue is always firmly planted in his cheek... He'd do right to plant it elsewhere sometimes!
magichands Posted November 9, 2006 Posted November 9, 2006 You gotta know how to read Magic's posts - his tongue is always firmly planted in his cheek... Look...someone said I was right. Don't try to take that away from me.
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