Parmalat Posted November 7, 2006 Posted November 7, 2006 Sorry for writing a long story but I just need some input or advice from you guys out there please, Thanks for any advice! I’m 28 and met a really nice guy (43) about 2 months ago while on a business trip about 150 miles away, (I go there about once or twice a month). After 2 trips and some heavy flirting where he indicated he hoped I would return soon and I gave him my number on both ocations (but he lost his phone after I gave it to him the first time), I initiated a coffee date for which he was excited and full heartedly accepted and made the arrangements. For the date he picked me up acted like a gentleman the entire evening (the coffee date turned into full on dinner), paid the bill without even showing it to me and we ended up kissing and a little more (no sex) at the end of the night, really GREAT first date. The next day I send him a message saying thank you for a lovely evening and waited it out. Six days later he phoned and we once again hit it off chatting (He phoned just to say hi). Then nothing, so I called about 5 days later, but didn't get through, I waited a day and called the next evening, he said he didn't even noticed that he had missed my call (Strange right) but any case, we had a great time chatting away. Now I'm doing the waiting thing again, the ball is in his court, right? There are some serious sparks and I really like him and I can tell he feels the same. My question to some of you guys out there, do I wait it out or take action, at his age surely he knows what he wants, or do you think I’m kidding myself and should just move on? PS He's wanted to know everytime we spoke when I'm heading his direction, this will be withing 10 days, what do I do, or do I just let him go?
Guest Posted November 8, 2006 Posted November 8, 2006 My question to some of you guys out there, do I wait it out or take action, at his age surely he knows what he wants, or do you think I’m kidding myself and should just move on? PS He's wanted to know everytime we spoke when I'm heading his direction, this will be withing 10 days, what do I do, or do I just let him go? I'd wait it out. Something is not quite right here. The fact that he's married is one thing that quickly comes to mind. Liv
Author Parmalat Posted November 8, 2006 Author Posted November 8, 2006 Thank you for the reply, I don't think he's married, during some of our first conversations I asked him directly and he said no, no women in his life currently. I do know that he is busy because he runs 3 of his own businesses, this is how we intitially met, through business. Another thing that I've noticed is that his phone is off a lot of the time, due to meetings and the usual stuff (once again I'm guessing). Like I said playing the guessing game cause I don't know him well enough to say exactly what it is he's doing. So I guess keep positive and see what he does. I really like him and hope he comes around. Otherwise, next!
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