Meaplus3 Posted November 7, 2006 Posted November 7, 2006 Hi, My story is long and has been going on now for about a year. I am MW who happen to fall in love with a MM, my neighbor to be exact. The heartache and confusion from this whole affair has truely taken a toll on me. After learning and finally excepting the fact that this man could never leave his wife for me and that the affair is over I sort of feel like did I really love him? Was it all just a Fantasy? The last couple of months between us felt like so much work, the fun was leaving. So many feeling's involved and the truth of what our lives would be like if we went another step. I guess because of all this I now find myself not thinking about him as much. Did I love him? Anyone ever feel this way? AP
whichwayisup Posted November 7, 2006 Posted November 7, 2006 Fantasy and the desire of wanting it to be more. I bet he did (does) care for you, but not in the sense of making a life with you, forever...He already has a wife, and they have children...Just as you have a husband and children as well... I really think it's best that you don't think up these types of questions. Make your own closure, accept that it's over and nothing is going to happen again. Obviously some feelings were there otherwise nothing would have ever happened in the first place. And leave it at that...
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