InLimbo2 Posted November 8, 2006 Posted November 8, 2006 Girl - I'll come right out and say it - you are whacked - and you need professional help - others here have said it - why won't you even consider that all these people here are right!? I read his email to you - what's wrong with it? I really don't think the guy knows that in your head the issue is him! He's being respectful of your request, he's being supportive, he's offering alternative resolutions - and he's telling you he misses talking to you and looks forward to talking to you again. Why is it about him and him failing when he's the one hurting me. He's working for christ's sake! You need to grow up - what's with all this game playing - say "X - I"m upset cuz you are out of town for y weeks - I need hope coping" You can't cope with more? I feel sorry for this poor guy off on a biz trip - who's girl is flaking on him - and he has no clue what's goin on. Read the other posts - you are torturing him - you are being cruel and selfish. YOU are the problem here - not HIM. You can date 1000 other guys - but same problems will come up over and over - because YOU have something wrong with you. You need to grow up, learn how a healthy relationship works, and learn how to communicate. You are doomed in relationships until you do. I don't understand the setting him up to fail, and again? When was the first time? Why is it about him and him failing when he's the one hurting me. If he was so worried about me, then why does he pretend he doesn't know what's bothering me? It's all him that's bothering me, yet he's going to act dumb about it and send me off to a therapist? I will copy/paste his email below, you can see how he hints that it could be him I'm upset at without flat out volunteering that it is, even asking about another issue if that's what's bothering me! And I'm supposed to go along with it and think he doesn't know how miserable he's making me by leaving me for all these weeks. See for yourself. ------------ "fun", Thank you so much for your email. I was very worried about you.....I hope I haven't offended you.....You are always welcome to talk to me about any problems.....(I hope I'm not the problem)......I look forward to talking to you just as soon as you feel like talking....... Anything I can do....just ask....and I'll try if possible.......anything new with (an issue i'm having at work)? Is that been bothering you allot? Could be a good time to try and see the therapist..... Miss talking to you.... "x" No way, at least not any time soon. That would be adding more to the mix when I can't even deal with what's currently going on. I can only take on so much. If he doesn't call again tonight I will be very surprised and disappointed, and at the same time I wonder if I should start dating someone else. I can't continue feeling this way.
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