Guest Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 We been together for two years now, and it was all great till in the summer i basically moved into his house, without asking him or anything. This is because i LOVE spending time with him. Anyways that caused us to be together everyday and his attitude started changing towards me. I actually felt like he hated he. He used to ignore me all the time and act like i was a liability he was only hair wen his friends were round. After a while he's get calls at night and take his phone every where with him his phone never layed around the house, even with him 2 the bath. And i suspected he was cheating. Finally one day he said he was going to sort out trouble with his friend and a girl mistakenly called the phone but i called bk. I asked who she was and immediately she stood her ground. N i said whats going on with u 2... she said we been seeing each other for a few months now.... i was in tears n asked have u had sex with him (by the way he took my virginity a few months prior to that so sex with us wasn't often n i was so rubbish at it) she said yes they sleep together regularly and he was on the way to hers as we spoke. I told her about me n him n she was angry and said shed seen messages form me on his fone. n he said i was his ex and he left me for her cze i was too possessive. To cut a long story short he lied 2 me when i went to et my stuff, he didn't even look at my face that day.. until i asked him an explanation. n he said she was someone obsessed with him and she wanted to ruin his relationship. I knew the truth but didn't want to believe it so i started looking for ways 2 confront him, eventually i found a phone with messages he had sent to her and i read it to him. He didn't say anything to me.. I broke down and begged and asked him 2 tell me why.. n he cried saying its not my fault n he didn't know... I stayed with him. cze i love him more than anything and if i left id be depressed...we had a rocky relationship and he wanted 2 finish it ... we argued all the time.. and most of this was due 2 my jealousy n slinging... but i had 2 make this work.. so i fixed up and focused more on me than the relationship now, andeven though i think of hi all the time i never let it show... i only go round wen he begs me 2 ... its totally changed n now he is a nicer person cze i give hsi space... he is now in mine most of the time but i love it... Thing is its all a front cze its soo hard for me 2 act like liberated woman now... i wana call him all the time, he is in my head allll day everyday im only happy wen hes with me... i need advise on coping with this cze i can feel myself going mad...
ddnnee Posted November 7, 2006 Posted November 7, 2006 some guys can be evil. that sucks and its time for you to move on.
dropdeadlegs Posted November 7, 2006 Posted November 7, 2006 I couldn't really understand your post, too much "young" abbreviations. Use real language too get better advice in the future. (I'm sorry if you are from another country and using English to the best of your ability.) It doesn't take that long to type words. How old are you anyway? Apparently old enough to live with someone. Moving in sometimes "happens" but without discussion it rarely works. Based on what I can uinderstand I think you have been used because you have made yourself so available and, wow, I just read your post again and it appears to be just that simple. Am I missing something?
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