klynnds Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 I'd like to know how far a person has to go before they start loosing it. I believe my husband is being unfaithful, he has been acting questionable in his behavior, definatly out of the ordinary. New clothes, cologne, going out weekly, etc. I got a digital recorder, waiting to catch him on tape, then I want to follow him. Etc etc yadda yadda...yikes Do I sound like I'm letting it get the best of me? What have any of you done out of the ordinary, and when did you finally give up and leave or give up and accept it? But I am getting to the point I feel infatuated with catching him. I really think he wants me in the house for financial reasons. We live in a high-priced state and to be seperated he'd have to work more to support him and his son. I want to catch him either cheating or just having a beer with a friend as he says he is doing. Something has got to give because its driving me crazy. I can't concentrate on work or anything but plotting my spy tactics. I really want to trust him, but all the new changes in him has given me little room to trust. He told me that he doesn't need to give me a reason to trust him, because either I will or I won't. I really hope people who are involved in an affair get their just Karma, it can tear a person up with your unthoughtful actions. If you want to have an affair, leave a person, don't drag them down with you. You have no idea what it does to a person. You kill every bit of self esteem a person has, not just temporarily, its a lifetime Life is just too short for this.
Guest** Posted November 7, 2006 Posted November 7, 2006 K, Keep it together! If your guy is cheating, and he suspects that your are making efforts to catch him, he will become more covert, making it tougher for you to accomplish what you want to do. There really is a thing called karma. Give him enough slack. If he is cheating, he will slip up. **
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