Belkin Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 My 36 year old boyfriend of 2 years decided this weekend that he wasn't going to speak to me for 2 days. I saw him last Friday for a few hours and everything was fine. We usually hang out over the weekend because we are both busy during the week. So I call him Saturday to see if he wanted to go out - he didn't answer or return my call. Sunday same thing and now I am worried that he is injured or dead. Well, I get a call from him Monday morning like nothing happened. Basically I am beyond pissed and I am going to call him tonight and dump him. Any opinions?
Walk Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 Did you ask why he didn't return your call? Or why he couldn't call? What lead you to the conclusion you came to... seems like there's more than just this occurance to drive you to dump him. Assuming he had no good reason (ie: wasn't caught in a tornado flying over kansas for two days) for not responding over the weekend, then I'd either have a really good heart to heart with him... or if this is repeated behavior that's been discussed before, then I'd dump him. He's old enough to not act like a child any more. If he has a problem with you, or the relationship, then he should be mature enough to come talk to you about it. Or at the very least explain that he needs a couple days to himself, so that you won't worry to death that he's hurt or dying.
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