He called again...huh?

[phyrespryte]

So he called last week and left a message. I didn't call back. He called again today and left a message. This time it went:

Hi Phyre, what's up? This is Steve. Just wondering where you've been. Give me a call when you get this.

 

I don't understand why he keeps calling. Part of me thinks it means he cares. That deep down inside he wants me back. Or he could just be wondering where I am since I haven't been to school in awhile. But still he ended things, why would he bother calling?

[magichands]

Haven't you heard of basic human curiosity? In this case, do yourself a favour and DON'T satisfy his, haha.

[joriel]

I agree with Magichands. Let sleeping dogs lie.

 

A week ago today my ex called me because I had stopped calling her. Post break-up I would call once a week to see how she was and finally I decided that if she really wanted to be friends (like she suggested during the break-up) she would call me. It took her two weeks to call. I was at the bar with some female friends so I didn't answer but in her message she said something to the effect of, "I was just wondering how you've been, what you're up to, how your parents are, how your sister is, blah, blah blah." She never asked about any of that stuff before so draw your own conclusion. I called back the next day and she didn't pick up. In my message I said, "Hey, I'm just returning your call, I hope that all is well. Cheers." I still haven't heard back from her...

 

I said all of that to say, if the calls don't make sense to you then you probably don't need to talk to him. Let him be curious, but you go have a good time.

[phyrespryte]

Thanks for the replies.

I haven't called him back and won't be.

[SoundedPlum]

He most likely misses you... maybe as a lover, or maybe just as a friend. Whatever the case is, he misses you on some level because he hasn't heard from you. That's the same with me- MY ex broke it off with ME, and then after I stopped calling, he called me...