Vanquish Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 So low and behold the girl that ruined me 2 months ago showed up at my work and ran into me. And had the balls to say hi and be shocked that i was in a sling after a prior surgery. It was a shocking experience to say the least. She goes from not even being able to say hello or respond to a phone call to this, after NC was initiated for most of the 2 months, aside from seeing her at her birthday of which i avoided her and chilled with the parents. I just think shes battling with her concious and trying to tell herself she is a good person even though she isn't and mine and our situation was living proof of it. She even goes as far as to say you look good, have you lost weight? I mean what the fu*k. And she was totally serious.... I dunno i hope its not that dreaded looming possibility of her second guessing things. Because i've met someone else and for me to go back to her after what she did to me would be a total loss of all dignity. Ill just keep laughing inside as i think of her girlfriend standing there telling her "lets go" as shes talking to me. Great stuff. Double talking b*tches for the win.
Mythical Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 So low and behold the girl that ruined me 2 months ago showed up at my work and ran into me. And had the balls to say hi and be shocked that i was in a sling after a prior surgery. It was a shocking experience to say the least. She goes from not even being able to say hello or respond to a phone call to this, after NC was initiated for most of the 2 months, aside from seeing her at her birthday of which i avoided her and chilled with the parents. I just think shes battling with her concious and trying to tell herself she is a good person even though she isn't and mine and our situation was living proof of it. She even goes as far as to say you look good, have you lost weight? I mean what the fu*k. And she was totally serious.... I dunno i hope its not that dreaded looming possibility of her second guessing things. Because i've met someone else and for me to go back to her after what she did to me would be a total loss of all dignity. Ill just keep laughing inside as i think of her girlfriend standing there telling her "lets go" as shes talking to me. Great stuff. Double talking b*tches for the win. I think since (you KNow) she is such a bad person and since you have met someone els, totally move on! You know/ feel you are the better person so why drown yourself with ppl that are unsure of themselve and hurt you.
JCD Posted November 7, 2006 Posted November 7, 2006 I'm not sure but I think she likes you and wants to short circuit the awkwardness by behaving normally. Usually it takes sometime for both people to make up. By your response, it looks to me like you're still angry at her but possibly could still be in love with her. I think once you're over the angry stage you might change your mind about giving her a second chance.
Author Vanquish Posted November 7, 2006 Author Posted November 7, 2006 Basically yes, i do get that shocked prickly feeling when i see her, especially then. So i was cold and straight forward like she was with me. Even if she does want to stop all the hate i am going on a date this sat with another girl that treats me with the respect i deserve and has her **** together. Maybe she caught wind of it im not sure. Either way what we had was great im not going to lie, but what it metamorphasized into was extremely wrong on her part and i would lose my dignity if i went back with her because chances are she pulls the same shti again. Either way maybe a friendship could develop but more then that is doubtful. Maybe in a couple of years when she figures herself and her relationship needs out.
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