Guest Posted November 5, 2006 Posted November 5, 2006 Hiya, Cud anyone tell me whatz going on in my ex's mind? Well, he basically contacted me after a first break up to tell me that he was sorry, that he missed me and wanted to spend more time with me. But when I told him, I lost the feelings, he asked whether I would fall in love with him again and if I did, that we should stop it there. So, we agreed to be just friends. Yet, he is acting like more than a friend. What does he want from me? I am seeing him tomorrow night and I don't know how to behave. The problem is that I am confused myself. I just feel like I am started to have feelings for him again but it just seems that the other part of me does not want to forgive him for leaving me for some flings with other girls.
phyrespryte Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 What he wants is to have his cake and eat it too. He wants the comfort of having you around, but the freedom to date other girls. If you didn't have any feelings for him that wouldn't be a problem, but you do. If you're not totally sure you're over him, you might want to do no contact. Friendship is pretty much impossible unless you're at a point where you don't care what they do or who they're with.
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