neiu Posted November 5, 2006 Posted November 5, 2006 So I recently ran into an ex whom i dated for 1.5yrs and we've been broken up for around the same amount of time now. I haven't spoken to her for a very long time like a good 8 months or so. I decide that I would be a good guy and finally talk to her and catch up on things. So I do and everything, it was good and all but as she was leaving at the end of the night she yelled at me for not responding to her emails about a girl i had hooked up with infront of her at a club I was at which happened almost a year after the break. So I guess what i'm wondering is why she would bring it up again even now, maybe she misses me and this is her way of showing it but it's not working very well. Anyway just a bit frustrated I suppose, maybe the NC got to her. The thing i don't get is that she broke up with me so why would it matter what i do and who i see
saira82 Posted November 5, 2006 Posted November 5, 2006 Is this ths first time you have actually spoken since the break-up? Maybe she has issues which she feels arent resolved yet? Even though she broke up with you
LakesideDream Posted November 5, 2006 Posted November 5, 2006 You sound young.. are you? In any case you should know that with few exceptions women keep a "Book of Wrongs" listing everything a man does that they don't like. This isn't a chastisment of women, they just all do it (in my experiance). The woman you mentioned would have brought that up 30 years later if it pleased her. Most studies claim that womem have superior memories to men. Maybe it's just a natural thing.
Author neiu Posted November 6, 2006 Author Posted November 6, 2006 i'm in my 20's so i guess young. I have no idea what your perspective on being young is. anyway no this would not be the first time i have spoken to her. i've ranted about her before but basically she messed with my head for a good 6 months after the breakup and i got fed up and went NC on her. lakeside- not quite understanding what you mean by superior memories and all this other stuff. i know what i did and what she wanted from me was an apology and to say i was wrong for what i did. imho, i do not believe i did anything wrong. i felt attraction for someone and ended up being with this girl which unfortunately happened infront of my ex but i think i'm in the clear seeing how a year had passed, she was dating other people and she broke up with me. so why care now and why bring it up again. for fun? i don't like to argue and i don't know many people who actually do either.
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