so lost Posted November 5, 2006 Posted November 5, 2006 does thisno contact work? anyone know from experience? and did it work and how long did you not have contact for amd how long were you separated?? i was with my ex for 4 years its been over 8 months but we only cut contact 5 weeks ago....he contacted my sister 2 weekds ago but not me yet....well i changed my number anyway
Fun2BMe Posted November 5, 2006 Posted November 5, 2006 I got my ex back after 2 years of NC but it's filled with too much heartache and drama. If he's already contacting your sister 2 weeks later then I'd say he should be contacting you any minute but if you changed your number, I'm not sure if you do or do not want him to be contacting you?
Author so lost Posted November 5, 2006 Author Posted November 5, 2006 coz i told him that if he doesnt want to be with me then he cant contact me so i can get over it and hwe said ok....but he still kept contacting me. i asked him everytime he came back if he wanted us to get back to gether and he said no he was just cheaking on me. if he wants to speak to me he knows where i live...... do u think he still loves me by keeping contacting me
Fun2BMe Posted November 5, 2006 Posted November 5, 2006 Yes, I have a feeling he does still love you. Usually after a break up you either hate the other person or are still in love and in rare cases somewhere in between. If he is contacting you so much just to see how you are and now that you've changed your number, contacted your sister, I would bet he still loves you. However, it's confusing because when you ask if he wants to get back together he says no. Maybe by checking up on you, he wants to see if you are dating someone else. He might get jealous to learn if you are. Maybe he thinks in case he does want to get back together, he wants to make sure in the meantime you are still single. I'd test where he stands by telling your sister to tell him you're out on a date the next time he calls her 'checking up on you.' By his reaction she might pick up if he is for real over you and wants to know of your wellbeing or if he still has more than friends feelings for you.
Author so lost Posted November 5, 2006 Author Posted November 5, 2006 thank you he did tell me also that if i am touched by another man even a kiss it is over 100% between us. he was my fisrt bf and my first kiss. i dont know what is going on. nut when he contacts me it gives me false hope to think he still loves me. he told me that i am still his angel and no one will ever know him or love him like me. why say this but not want to be with me we ended coz we started fighting alot
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