perspektiv Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 So my LDR GF and I broke up for a short time, and got back together. Since we have it feels like we are tiptoeing around each other as to not bring back everything we were fighting about. In conversation, she said to me "I want this to be more casual and less serious". I took that as, she wants to do whatever she wants and not feel guilty for it. She explained it as, "I just don't want to fight about the same things, etc. We need to be more lenient with each other in terms of our social lives". When we got together, her and I both kinda cut off our freindships of the opposite sex. Now she has been contacting them again, hanging out etc. My jealousy has had an impact on all of this. Its hard for me to believe that she is hanging out with guys and things aren't happening. I mean, whenever she mentions a guy, I would say that 95% of the time it comes out that shes either slept with or fooled around with them in the past. I myself have not really been able to have a serious freindship with a female that didn't end up in something more. I have however messed around with girls that I now am freinds with, so I guess I understand on some level. Should this just be looked at as a time for us to open up to all that we shut out? I have been hanging out with my old freinds alot more as well and it feels good. Maybe I should just step back and give her space. She is very busy in school and truthfully cannot handle the stress of this right now. On the other side, maybe shes just pushing me away but not letting go. It scares me. This is absolutely the hardest relationship I've ever been in. I haven't seen her in over 2 wks as it is, and its going to be another 3 until I see her again....
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