fairie87 Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 I know this sounds horribly cruel, but i want to be just friends with my now-boyfriend. i tried to end things nicely, and talked it out with him. however, the next few days i thought he might do something stupid. my friends told me that he looked like he was about to kill himself. Instead of taking him back fully, we agreed to be in the stage that's not friends, but doesn't have the pressure that full-on dating has. This i see is the wrong thing to do, because he has more feelings for me than i do for him. I feel horribly selfish, and i know i should, i admit when i'm wrong. however, i don't want to be the one to end things with him again, because i don't want him doing anything drastic. I know this sounds bad, but I just want some advice from some guys on what would be the best way to get him to end things. How do i get him to break up with me?
Rooster_DAR Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 The best and only way IMO is to be honest and open about breaking up. The longer you cower to owning up to your responsibility, the worse it will be for him in the long run. Tell him now, grit your teeth and you will both be better off in the end. Of course, the other way is to just bail with no explanation at all. Some people on here think that's the best way, but I'm for the honest approach. Whatever you do, you need to do it now before things get worse. Regards,
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