Charlotte434 Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 I have a crush on a fairly new co worker of mine. From the minute I saw him I was soo attracted to him. Anyway we tease each other bc we have similar personalites. We chit chat during the day when he's around my area and he's overly mannerly, like if he sees me coming he'll step out of the way and be like oh after u. Now no other guys in the office do this lol. I've seen him check me out like he'll see me in the morning and really quick I'll see his guys go up and down. My major gripe is that he is dating a girl..who he's staying with till he moves but he lies about it to me lol. I've herd from 2 other co workers that he's told them that who he's staying with. When I first met him he told me he was staying with friends then again I asked him point blank wait who are u staying with..and he said friends again. I find this odd that I'm the one person who he has never mentioned a gf too and still keeps telling me he's with "friends". Then there's the casual touching. Everyday he'll pass by me and touch my arm..come up from behind me from the side watever. No one else does this to me and I don't see him doing it to the other ladies or maybe he does not in my presence. He's always asking me how to do things, where to find stuff when it's right in front of him. I don't know if he's just being nice bc he wants his work done or if he's attratced to me and interested?
whichwayisup Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 He has a girlfriend so if I were you, I wouldn't take the flirting and fun filled conversations too seriously. Even if he is attracted to you, he probably isn't going to act upon it. Also, maybe you both need to back off abit, seeing as you two work at the same place...people gossip and last thing you need is a reputation for going after a guy who has a girlfriend, just like he doesn't need a rep saying he cheats on his girlfriends. Maybe he likes you more than he should, but I think you need to let him know that you know he is seeing someone, and to call you if they break up - That you don't want to get involved right now when he's taken.
Guest Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 He has a girlfriend so if I were you, I wouldn't take the flirting and fun filled conversations too seriously. Even if he is attracted to you, he probably isn't going to act upon it. Also, maybe you both need to back off abit, seeing as you two work at the same place...people gossip and last thing you need is a reputation for going after a guy who has a girlfriend, just like he doesn't need a rep saying he cheats on his girlfriends. Maybe he likes you more than he should, but I think you need to let him know that you know he is seeing someone, and to call you if they break up - That you don't want to get involved right now when he's taken. well I don't really think I need to back off since I'm not the one doing anything wrong..am I asking a million questions or touching his arm...no. And yes he defintely knows I know he has a gf bc I've gave him calls when she's been on the phone. I don't want to come out and be like listen I know you're staying with your gf because then it'll look like I was asking about him, which I haven't since like I said he keeps saying he's with friends or won't talk about her around me. ..
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