laxplayer19x93 Posted November 3, 2006 Posted November 3, 2006 Hey guys and gals. I need some advice. I am 13 years old and I really like this girl but I'm not sure if she likes me. I think she likes someone else right now, but she has posted bulletins on myspace saying she was confused about someone. I don't wanna mess it up with us because we are good freinds, but I want to be more than that. I am hinting a little that I like her and sometimes I flirt with her. I really don't want her to reject me, should I wait it out until I find out if she likes this guy, or confess?
Author laxplayer19x93 Posted November 4, 2006 Author Posted November 4, 2006 Oh, I forgot to add that she always has "call da cell" as her away for aim, should I ask her the number and call her sometime, or is that too sudden of a move?
fairie87 Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 do a few things. When i was 13, a whopping six yrs ago, we didn't carry around cell phones, but i noticed that if a guy wanted my number he would often make an excuse about homework and what not, like, "i need help on something. can i get your number to call you?" I know there isn't that great a difference in our ages, but i DO know that you guys handle things differently nowadays. If you want her number, you can either do what my guy classmates did, or you can ask her for it more directly--"hey we're friends and i don't even have your cell number!" something like that, ya know? Another thing you can do, which i know guys aren't to skilled at, is somehow transition smoothly from one topic to another until you get one the subject of people's crush. ask her about some of your other friends, like "did you know so and so like so and so..." blah blah blah. and then maybe you can ask her who she likes. And my last choice for you would be---just ask her. ask her if she likes the other dude. if she says something to the effect of yeah or no, "and i like this other person kinda"--then ask her who it is. it's not like you're sayin "I LIKE YOU!" well, you may think this is some crappy advice, but i'm just tryin to remember how the guys did it when i was 13. good luck
hindsfeet Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 definitely hit her up on aim and ask for the number. just put something like, 'id love to call you but i don't have your number' if she doesnt give you the number then she doesn't like you. if she does its a positive sign.
fairie87 Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 definitely hit her up on aim and ask for the number. just put something like, 'id love to call you but i don't have your number' if she doesnt give you the number then she doesn't like you. if she does its a positive sign. yeah, actually i like that. BUT she may not want to give you her number because of other reasons.
Author laxplayer19x93 Posted November 6, 2006 Author Posted November 6, 2006 But I'm afraid that there will be nothing to talk about, and it will be like awkward silence...
fairie87 Posted November 6, 2006 Posted November 6, 2006 yeah, awkward silence bites hard. . .do you know what interests her. is she into sports? I'm big on sports--which always helped me talk with guys. find out something you both have in common, and move on from there
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