gobev Posted November 3, 2006 Posted November 3, 2006 Had been seeing a woman that i'd been involved with in college. her name is Meredith. had thought that her marriage was dead and that we could pick up where we left off. saw her occaisionally, talked & emailed regularly. even had sex. knew that she was still having sex with her husband, but didnt think they would reconcile but they did. i wonder do i still have a chance?
norajane Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 No, you don't "still" have a chance. You never had a chance. When people are married, the odds are in favor of the marriage.
jerbear Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 Had been seeing a woman that i'd been involved with in college. her name is Meredith. had thought that her marriage was dead and that we could pick up where we left off. saw her occaisionally, talked & emailed regularly. even had sex. knew that she was still having sex with her husband, but didnt think they would reconcile but they did. i wonder do i still have a chance? Nope, till those two get a divorce; you don't have a chance. You'll just be the other person. Even if they get divorced still does not mean they can't still have sex with each other. If you still think you have a chance; move on and go do your own thing. She'll call you if she wants something more after her divorce.
Author gobev Posted November 13, 2006 Author Posted November 13, 2006 I still want her. she's the only one I've ever spent much time involved with. I thought she might still have some feeling for me, but maybe not enough. I thought she'd want to have another chance too.
Sup Posted November 13, 2006 Posted November 13, 2006 I still want her. she's the only one I've ever spent much time involved with. I thought she might still have some feeling for me, but maybe not enough. I thought she'd want to have another chance too. Have you ever thought that her husband might know about you now? If not, he may soon know about you, and kick the CRAP out of you!
Guest Posted November 14, 2006 Posted November 14, 2006 Did Meredith tell you that her marriage was over, or was she hesitating? First of all you should never date or have sex with a person who is married. That is great for Meredith and her husband to reconcile their differances, now days people are divorcing left and right. You on the other hand have not let THE ONE get away, because Meredeth is not the one. Trust me when you find the one you will know, because you both will feel the same way. I think God puts people in your life to teach you about the person you want as a wife or husband. He put Meredith in your life to teach you that dating someone that is married is not right. I know you are hurt, but you put yourself in this situation. You knew she was married and still had sex with her. Think smarter on you next relationship, think about yourself. Had been seeing a woman that i'd been involved with in college. her name is Meredith. had thought that her marriage was dead and that we could pick up where we left off. saw her occaisionally, talked & emailed regularly. even had sex. knew that she was still having sex with her husband, but didnt think they would reconcile but they did. i wonder do i still have a chance?
Author gobev Posted November 16, 2006 Author Posted November 16, 2006 maybe there was a reason. don't know how much it's done for me. i seem to have availibility issues, can't seem to keep one for long. well at least i got to have sex with her again. even though it didn't (i didn't) last long!
Guest Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 Why wonder she let go of such a great option like you?
Guest Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 maybe there was a reason. don't know how much it's done for me. i seem to have availibility issues, can't seem to keep one for long. well at least i got to have sex with her again. even though it didn't (i didn't) last long! "at least I got to have sex with her"?????????? Yeah, any wonder she dropped you, if that's all you have to say in closing? Think this might be any indicator of WHY you have difficulty keeping a relationship?
Guest Posted November 16, 2006 Posted November 16, 2006 maybe there was a reason. don't know how much it's done for me. i seem to have availibility issues, can't seem to keep one for long. well at least i got to have sex with her again. even though it didn't (i didn't) last long! WHAT didn't last long? YOU didn't last long? Maybe that's why she dropped you for the husband You know you can get help for premature ejaculation?
Author gobev Posted November 16, 2006 Author Posted November 16, 2006 WHAT didn't last long? YOU didn't last long? Maybe that's why she dropped you for the husband You know you can get help for premature ejaculation? i think i probaly lasted long enough, she sure didn't complain. she helped me ejaculate OK! maybe that's why she started seeing me to?
puddleofmud Posted November 17, 2006 Posted November 17, 2006 Could you possibly be romanticizing/ idealizing your youth instead of your current adult life with responsibilities?
Author gobev Posted November 17, 2006 Author Posted November 17, 2006 we ended our relatinship prety abruptly back then. guess i never completely let go? i was ready to pick up were it left off.
ahoy Posted November 17, 2006 Posted November 17, 2006 maybe your lack of adult responsibility is turning her away? have you considered what's best for her, or her needs?
GreenEyedLady Posted November 18, 2006 Posted November 18, 2006 WHAT didn't last long? YOU didn't last long? Maybe that's why she dropped you for the husband You know you can get help for premature ejaculation? VERY RUDE and uncalled for!
Guest Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 No worse than gobev's observations "at least i still got to have sex with her" or "she helped me ejaculate/didn't complain" were. Sounds a little chauvinistic- I don't get to BE with her, but well, did get to nail her again. Remember, she's married too. Sounds like somebody's falling back on someone he thinks he can manipulate, instead of finding someone new. Probably because he can't manage to find someone else?
Guest Posted November 20, 2006 Posted November 20, 2006 Maybe. gobev's initial comments aren't much better- saying at least he's gotten sex from this woman, she's helped him get his rocks off etc. This IS a married couple were talking about. Little wonder this lady's not leaving her husband for him..??
Author gobev Posted November 22, 2006 Author Posted November 22, 2006 what happend here? lot of posts are gone
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