CactX Posted November 3, 2006 Posted November 3, 2006 My name is *****, I live in Laval, Quebec. Please excuse my lousy english speaking, french is my primal language. I have absolutly no problem approaching ladies, talking with the, making them laugh etc... But somehow, I get to become their friends. And the excuse they get for me is "Im sorry we are too much of friends" (I doubt it is the actual reason, whatever...) Some of my friends say I am struck by a disease called "The best friend" and that finding a cure is hard. (Dramatic music) Any tips to avoid getting friends if you unterstand my meaning... CactX
norajane Posted November 3, 2006 Posted November 3, 2006 Ask them out on dates when you first meet them. Don't hang around and become friends first and try to ask them out later. If you like them, flirt with them, give them lots of eye contact, compliement them, and ask them out for coffee or dinner or whatever. If they say no, move on.
Author CactX Posted November 3, 2006 Author Posted November 3, 2006 What do you mean by "Eye Contact"?
norajane Posted November 3, 2006 Posted November 3, 2006 eye contact = look them in the eye Especially do that when shaking hands when you meet them the first time, when smiling at them, when giving them compliments, and when speaking to them, or when they speak to you.
Sand&Water Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 Reply: CactX, est-ce que tu parler francais. Bienvenue! Q'est que tu fais? What are you doing? You have to be less friendly with women, if you want to date them. Start out by approaching them on your own. Don't do a lot of group outings. There is a member on this board that speaks, french I think, better than me. Her name is dgiirl. Perhaps she can provide efficient, and relative insight. Just a thought. Sand&Water
Author CactX Posted November 4, 2006 Author Posted November 4, 2006 Oui je parle français. I also speak spanish and a bit of Russian. I would like to thank everybody for these advices and i would be more than interested in asking Loveshack.org community advices in the Future. Thank you. P.S: I did some resaerches on Eye contact troughout some books and I am trying to "Get the hang of it". I wish all you guy/gals luck in what we call l'amour. CactX
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