NOTSOHAPPYBUNNY Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 I knew this guy for about 6 months and we became friends about three months ago... sometimes we do flirt with each other … like teases each other and play fight and stuff so I felt that he liked me and I kind of like him too… u c I’m very bubbly and friendly with everyone that’s why I’m quite popular at work. At the begin I was all bubbly towards him too same as everyone else but only about a month ago, I’ve noticed when I enter the building where he works, immediately I’ll try to spot him… each time I spotted him he would be looking at me too but we’ll both look away quickly … Because we work together and I wasn’t sure if I was right about him liking me, I try to hide my feelings and tried to stop spotting him, now it got to a point where I get nervous around him so I act cool and quiet to wards him, each time when he is near by I’ll try and look away, I have done that for the past three weeks now. We still have very short conversation occasionally. Usually we would smile and say hi to each other straight away but this week felt really weird... it’s getting awkward for both of us to look at each other… like today we walk past face to face before I could say hi or smile he look down at the floor… so I thought fine! And before I could look away he looked up again and said hi and then looks down at the floor again… i think we're trying to avoid eye contact...? Just don’t know what I am doing at the moment… and don’t know what he’s doing neither… before I think about does he like me…I guess I’ve blew it didn’t I… for sure he hates me now… Just got a bit upset over it… needed to tell someone that’s all….
Sand&Water Posted November 3, 2006 Posted November 3, 2006 NOTSOHAPPYBUNNY, It is obvious. He is imitating your every gesture and vibe. You are causing him to be on the spot. Somewhat like the center of attention. Thus, he acts embarrassed around you. What are you going to do? I believe you should, at least, try to drop hints -big hints -so that he can ask you out. IF you wait too long, the sparks/interest level will fade. Good Luck, Sand&Water
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