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Bf used my debit card without asking twice, forgivable?


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He's not only brainwashed you into believing that what's yours is also his, but he's also got you so hooked on him that you feel his actions are justified.

 

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No he's doing it BACK because I gave my mom money first without telling him. So now he's taking money without telling me to do it back because he says I do it first.

 

I know what you're saying about it being my money, but I also read a lot of threads here where people say they always make big financial decisions TOGETHER, so I guess that's what he meant when he felt betrayed.

 

Um, no. Financial decisions must be made together when you're married. And two wrongs don't make a right.

 

Heck, stick with him if you want. End up like me. When I divorced my exH he used my SSN and took his name off all our joint credit cards and left ME with over $10,000 in debt.

 

I never would have expected it. We were together for almost 4 years, engaged for 17 months.

 

I'm just saying.

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