TheRock Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 I've been seriously dating "A" for the past 4 months. We've gone away together a few times and sleep together. We get along great and never argue. She usually texts me quite frequently each day (at least once an hour) and calls after workor dinner and she usually initiates it. All of a sudden, this stopped with no reason and it's now maybe twice a day. Now I have to initiate it. I like hearing from her and miss the constant daily interaction. We went to a Halloween Party on Sat. Night. It was supposed to be us and 2 other couples. When I arrived at "A's" house, she told me her 2 girlfriend's BF's bailed and it was just me and the 3. I said she should go and have girls night out, but she insisted I go and said she wanted me there. So, I know she still likes me -she put a more recent pic of us in her office and asked me to a family party this wknd, etc. But I sense something's amiss. How should I bring this up without seeming worried or a wus?
laRubiaBonita Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 just say, "babe... you seem more reserved than usual. is everything ok? is there something i can help you with?":D
Island Girl Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Be Mr. Wonderful in person -- the happy, charming, great guy you are naturally without being preoccupied or questioning. You are still "the man" so take charge of the situations a bit more do not leave all decisions up to her (where you go what you do, etc.). On the phone - don't get into long conversations and start not answering ALL the time. Really make yourself busy. Make plans and be busy so if she calls you can't talk and there will be times you can't answer the phone. 1. If you make yourself busy, you won't be prone to thinking about what is or isn't going on (which will slowly drive you crazy to the point where you have a blow up possibly emitting too much emotionally which can be a serious blow to a relatioonship especially if she IS pulling back) 2. If she is messing around or has decided you aren't "the one", you are already primed with a life full of stuff going on so it won't be difficult for you to keep moving at a steady pace and get over it.
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