SoCalCatman72 Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 What does it mean when a woman says that they are not ready for a romantic relationship, but they still want to see you, and go out with you? Am I being friendzoned?
moman Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Means that she wants free dinners and to use you as a stool to make herself feel needed....seriously it depends on the situation. Probably the best counter is to say (and mean) that you don't want anything serious either and continue to go out with her but make it 50/50.
Pyro Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 What does it mean when a woman says that they are not ready for a romantic relationship, but they still want to see you, and go out with you? Am I being friendzoned? I believe so. That sucks. Sorry SoCal
Author SoCalCatman72 Posted November 1, 2006 Author Posted November 1, 2006 Errg.....I was hoping it was something else. This is the girl from the mountains that didn't call me about a month ago when she was in my area. I finally broke down and called her, she said that she was sick that weekend and was really sorry that she didn't call, but of course that begs the question why didn't she call when she felt better. Anyways, apparently she ran into a couple of my friends in town and they were telling her that I really enjoyed hanging out with her that once. I joked around with her, told her that not being ready for a relationship was better than the "I already have a man" response.
luvtoto Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 What does it mean when a woman says that they are not ready for a romantic relationship, but they still want to see you, and go out with you? Am I being friendzoned? Means that she isn't looking for a committed relationship, just wants to date you casually. I don't think you are necessarily in the friend zone.
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Socalcatman, Umm you do the same thing with women (not keep in touch) so why are you tripping.
Author SoCalCatman72 Posted November 1, 2006 Author Posted November 1, 2006 I'm not tripping, I'm bored out of my mind, and looking around for something expensive to disassemble.
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 I'm glad you're not tripping because you don't keep in contact with women and you wonder why women don't give you a chance.
Author SoCalCatman72 Posted November 1, 2006 Author Posted November 1, 2006 QIG, I'm going to say this once. I have every right to choose who I maintain contact with. Sometimes two people just don't mesh. You don't want to make this a public spectacle.
melodymatters Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 I only say that when I really mean " I can't see having sex with you, ever" Sorry, you look cute and furry, I'm just trying to help you not *break* something
Touche Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Who knows what she REALLY meant. I had to laugh because I told my husband the same thing when he asked me out. That was 12 years ago. I just thought it was too soon after my separation from my ex to be dating but I decided to give him a chance anyway. We became great friends and then shortly after that became engaged. So don't analyze it all to much.
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 QIG, I'm going to say this once. I have every right to choose who I maintain contact with. Sometimes two people just don't mesh. You don't want to make this a public spectacle. Socalcatman, What's wrong .I'm only answering your thread.It sounds like "you don't want to make this a public spectacle" is a "threat".No wonder women don't give you a chance.The way you treat women hmmm. How you treat women will come back on you? Oh one more thing don't ever think you're going to put me in my place for speaking my mind and opinion.Socal if you feel you have to smear me in public for speaking my mind GO FOR IT! People on the board can see your true character.
Touche Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 What is there a full moon tonight? What's going on here today?
Pyro Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 What is there a full moon tonight? What's going on here today? I wonder that too, but I am not referring to this thread. This thread is nothing compared to the earlier ones.
Touche Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 I wonder that too, but I am not referring to this thread. This thread is nothing compared to the earlier ones. I know Rid. I agree and I wasn't only commenting on THIS thread but in general. Is it me or are things worse than usual around here today? Sheesh...
burning 4 revenge Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 I wonder that too, but I am not referring to this thread. This thread is nothing compared to the earlier ones. which ones? i'm curious now
Pyro Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 I know Rid. I agree and I wasn't only commenting on THIS thread but in general. Is it me or are things worse than usual around here today? Sheesh... Just one of those days here on LS. Couldn't you feel the love? Hopefully things will be back to normal (whatever that is) tomorrow.
Pyro Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 which ones? i'm curious now You missed quite an afternoon B4R. I am not going to even mention them.
Touche Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 You missed quite an afternoon B4R. I am not going to even mention them. Mention them and then THIS thread will be deleted too!
Pyro Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Mention them and then THIS thread will be deleted too! We are getting OT here. Thats why I am not mentioning htem. OK people, back on topic.
Touche Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 We are getting OT here. Thats why I am not mentioning htem. OK people, back on topic. What the hell IS the topic anyway?
norajane Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Mention them and then THIS thread will be deleted too! Dang. I miss all the good stuff.
Walk Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Well.. SoCal, I've told guys that before too.. I think it's partly a defense mechanism for me. I think all guys want is sex. (hahahahah go figure) So I throw a wrench in it to back them off from the "grab and grope" method so many of you are fond of. At one time, I had three (seperate) dates with three different guys and even though the talk was not sexual, and we never physically touched the entire time.. as soon as we walked out to the cars each guy felt it appropriate to attempt to deep throat me and grab my ass. So I avoided seeing them again without telling them why I wouldn't go out with them again. I hate people touching me. Especially people I hardly know. I'm not sure that had anything to do with your date. Just thought I'd share.
Author SoCalCatman72 Posted November 2, 2006 Author Posted November 2, 2006 ROFL You guys are too funny I feel better now. Thanx
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