troubador333 Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 My man is balding, and I am afraid I find it unattractive. I know that is shallow, but i cant help it. It is not bad yet & I can deal, but one day it will be. I am worried to death I will be completely unattracted to him.
whichwayisup Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 How long have you been married? Or seeing this man, if you're not married? Don't let this get in the way of your relationship. BUT, if you really feel this is not only going to ruin your attraction to him, but also make you fall out of love for him, you might as well end it now and walk away so he can find a woman who will love him unconditionally. This isn't his fault, it happens! I mean, how would you feel if he stopped loving you or stopped finding you attractive if you gained some weight?
Author troubador333 Posted November 1, 2006 Author Posted November 1, 2006 [FONT=Arial][sIZE=2] I know... we have been dating 4 years! I do love him, and dont plan on ever leaving because of it, but just wish I could convince myself not to be unattracted to hair loss. I would feel AWFUL if it were the opposite situation. I realize it is shallow & dumb. [/sIZE][/FONT]
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