brownguy Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 im new to this forum, and i really like what ive been reading, im in the 11th grade, i had a girlfriend a long time ago, but since high skool i havnt...my biggest problem is talking to girls, i dont know what to say, it hard to keep a conversation going, this girl ive known for 2 years has been dropping hits that see's interested...I THINK??..im not 100% sure..lol but for these last 2 days we've been talking more WHAT SHOULD I DO OR TALK ABOUT, how can i tell her im intersted, without- really saying it
lovestruck234 Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Aw, that's easy...you ARE interested, so act it....you don't necessarily have to say it! Don't go overboard though. Ring her when you think of it and you have time. SEEM or better still, BE interested in what she has to say... The more you stress over it, the worse it will probably turn out. Just be yourself, cos she obviously been going for that all this time...when you feel as though she is seemingly interested in getting to know you more, invite her out somewhere. It doesn't have to be an OFFICIAL date, just out with her and your friends somewhere. My biggest point I'm going to stress is don't come across too strong in the beginning, just take it nice and easy...let nature take it's course, you know?
Sparky Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Ah yes! I remember those days when I was in your position; NOT GOOD. First of all, are you at least beyond acquaintances? Like, on the friendship road? That's the first step. Don't think about getting into a relationship with her yet because it'll show, and will most likely intimidate her (too much pressure). Secondly, are you sure that she's dropping signs that she LIKES you? Or that she's ATTRACTED to you? Because even though someone finds you attractive, it doesn't mean they like you. Don't mix those up, or else your setting yourself up for unbelievable heartache! Lastly, who says you need words to show you how you're feeling? As long as she trusts you and feels comfortable around you, it'll be okay to make some gentle physical contact to let her know that you're gentle. Obviously in the respectable places, which is everywhere except the breast, butt, inbetween the legs and stroking her thigh!
Ross_K Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 im new to this forum, and i really like what ive been reading, im in the 11th grade, i had a girlfriend a long time ago, but since high skool i havnt...my biggest problem is talking to girls, i dont know what to say, it hard to keep a conversation going, this girl ive known for 2 years has been dropping hits that see's interested...I THINK??..im not 100% sure..lol but for these last 2 days we've been talking more WHAT SHOULD I DO OR TALK ABOUT, how can i tell her im intersted, without- really saying it You should talk to a user called Maoi, he's the man. He goes to 'clubs', 'socializes', and has 'sex'. So cool.
littlekitty Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 You should talk to a user called Maoi, he's the man. He goes to 'clubs', 'socializes', and has 'sex'. So cool. Are you taking the mikey?! Lots of people do that!!! It's quite usual you know!! To the OP: Just to relax, and just be yourself. The more you can manage to do that, the more luck you'll no doubt have. I can still remember how difficult and nerve racking these things can be! Lovestruck had a great tip with 'be interested in what she has to say', that's always a good thing! And Sparky had a good one with the light touches. Just touch her arm, or her hand or something, just a short light touch. It shows interest.
Ross_K Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Are you taking the mikey?! Lots of people do that!!! It's quite usual you know!! Yeah I know, it's just to do with what Maoi was saying the other day.
littlekitty Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Ross this is why you keep getting threads deleted, and have had your posts moderated. Why post on a thread just to b*tch at another member and add completely nothing to the original posters topic?
Ross_K Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Why not? Why post about bitching when it doesn't add anything to the original topic?
littlekitty Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Why not? Why post about bitching when it doesn't add anything to the original topic? My previous post addressed the OP's issue.
dgiirl Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Ross this is why you keep getting threads deleted, and have had your posts moderated. Why post on a thread just to b*tch at another member and add completely nothing to the original posters topic? I agree with you LK. Ross is hijacking ppl's threads that has nothing to do with him and he has nothing useful to contribute. He just did it to one of my threads, and then bitches that I showed up and posted after him. Euh, it was my own thread! Brownguy, just be yourself and continuing hanging out with her You both will know what to when the time comes.
ilmw Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Yeah but your next one didn't. HAy Ross... Is it just my puter...or do you look realy ill on your Avatar.. looking a little off... you should eat more fruit and veg..
littlekitty Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 I agree with you LK. Ross is hijacking ppl's threads that has nothing to do with him and he has nothing useful to contribute. He just did it to one of my threads, and then bitches that I showed up and posted after him. Euh, it was my own thread! It's not fair to do it. But I suspect it will continue, and the mods will continue to moderate/delete as they so desire!! Even I've lost patience now.
dgiirl Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Even I've lost patience now. lol sorry lk... and you were one of the "nice" ones he liked
Ross_K Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Well, I didn't mean to hijack anyone's thread, but what is littlekitty and digiirl doing? It's not fair to do it. But I suspect it will continue, and the mods will continue to moderate/delete as they so desire!! Even I've lost patience now. I thought you was a nice person, but thanks for showing your real self. You're now on my ignore list.
Ross_K Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 HAy Ross... Is it just my puter...or do you look realy ill on your Avatar.. looking a little off... you should eat more fruit and veg.. Lol, maybe, maybe. Oh, and to answer your question, I'm still on the waiting list.
littlekitty Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Well, I didn't mean to hijack anyone's thread, but what is littlekitty and digiirl doing? I thought you was a nice person, but thanks for showing your real self. You're now on my ignore list. Whatever!
Ross_K Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Well I gave you a chance, to reply just in case I saw your post in the wrong 'tone' or whatever but... Whatever! What a mature intelligent response. You are now on my ignore list.
ilmw Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Well I gave you a chance, to reply just in case I saw your post in the wrong 'tone' or whatever but... What a mature intelligent response. You are now on my ignore list. Ross... you are more and more sounding like a character from a Seinfeild episode.... (Soup Nazi)... "No soup for you"... is this some kind of power thing for you?.. Do you feel power from putting someone on your ignore list....? Think about all the questions you pose on LS... now look at what you are doing...now.... lashing out at people who cannot hurt you or see you.. no true consequences.. well except getting yourself banned for good.... Think about....or continue your little game of ignoring... and put me on your ignore list too... BTW... if you want to feel valued... make a contribution... and stop devaluing threads... by the snarky comments....
SmoochieFace Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Do you feel power from putting someone on your ignore list....? Think about all the questions you pose on LS... now look at what you are doing...now.... lashing out at people who cannot hurt you or see you.. no true consequences.. well except getting yourself banned for good.... And he wonders why he has so much difficulty with people? Yeah, I've been placed on Ignore by the All-Powerful Soup Nazi too. Really wrecked my life... guess I'll have to seek out some therapy for it.
littlekitty Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Perhaps we should stop threadjacking and hand the thread back to the OP now....!! Only fair after all....!
ilmw Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Perhaps we should stop threadjacking and hand the thread back to the OP now....!! Only fair after all....! Oooops... your right...SORRY...
littlekitty Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Oooops... your right...SORRY... I'll let you off this time!!
Ariadne Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 Hi, how can i tell her im intersted, without- really saying it You can do the typical one. That is, comment on her jewlery and touch it. If she lets you and enjoys it you are on your way to touching her more. Grab her hand if you can afterwards. Ariadne
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