Guest Posted October 31, 2006 Posted October 31, 2006 so ive known this girl for about a year now, we never really sat down and talked about anything directly, i seen her and we talked while working some. now recently shes been inviting me out to go places, different activities.. but we go as a group of friends.. i let her know im attracted to her and i like her, but we both agreed we don't know each other all that well. im shy, so im the kind of guy that would want someone else to start talking to me, and i would answer, but i need things to talk about to her to keep her talking, I've read other threads about asking her questions and things.. ive asked alot of those and it keeps me and her talking for a while, but now im pretty much out of things to say... now shes not all open to things either, she keeps quiet most of the time. we've talked about movies, school, work, alot of hobbies and things already. any suggestions would be great
thelipless Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 maybe start pushing the boundries, start talking about more intimate stuff, you want to make her feel more comfortable around you.
chewy01234 Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 oh that's a good idea. Yeah I find the best thing to do is make jokes reffering to you and her together in a sexual way. I don't know your style but an easy thing is over-the-top pickup lines. Like they are so cheesy you can't be serious. For example: "Do you have a mirror in you pants? Cause I can see myself in them" "That shirt is very becoming on you. But I mean, if it was off I'd be cuming too." "Were you raised on a farm? Cause you sure know how to raise a cock." That last one was a little crude i'll admit but yeah keep it fun. Plant the seed of suggestion and also make sure you touch her. Whether its on the arm or like her back make sure you make skin-to-skin contact. Does she have a tatoo? say "Let me see it" and then slowly reach for her outer edge of it like if its on her shoulder you could put your hand a little above it or below it and take a good look. Not for too long don't be creepy but if she backs away you can probably just forget it if she is ok with it then you're golden.
Guest Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 those sound like good ideas, but i think she will think im a freak or i just want some ass.. i wanna show her i care about her because i really do.. i have no problem waiting and just talking to her to know her better, i just want good things to talk about
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