Guest Posted October 31, 2006 Posted October 31, 2006 I met that guy a couple of weeks ago. We went out for lunch, evening went very well, we laught, etc. He sent me text msg saying: <<Thanks for the wonderful evening!>>. We saw each other a couple of days after that and we kissed and cuddled a bit but nothing else happened. He asked me if I would like to see him again after his trip and I said yes. The day after he text msg me saying he couldn’t wait to see me again. Then on Sunday, he went in vacation for a week and came back on Sunday night of this week. Maybe I was expecting too much but I really tought he would’ve called me on Monday…. Now, it’s already Tuesday and he still hasn’t called… He’s 28 and I’m 24. My question is how much time should I wait until I just accepted that he wasn’t that into me? Let’s say he hasn’t called by Wednesday, should I stop thinking about him or am I just being too impatient? Thanks for your help!
hindsfeet Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 he may be just tired from the trip. i know when i travel which is often, it wears me out more than it does me good. hopefully he is just tired and is still resting or is catching up with things he missed on when he was gone. if he doesn't call you in another day or so call him. if it's meant to work out, it will . by the way i am same age as him. it's prob bc i didn't take care of myself. but i get really tired after trips.
Guest Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 I finally sent him a text message yesterday basically saying that I hope he had great vacation... He answered me that he was happy to hear from me and that he finally decided to come back on friday. he then asked me how I was so I replied but then I haven't got any news from him... I kind of thought it was a good sign at first (since he told me that he was happy to hear from me) but then I had second thoughts since he did not reply... In both ways, I'lll wait to hear from him as I do not want to seem like the stalker but do you think it's overall positive or should I just forget him as if he wasn't interested? Thanks for your help!
hindsfeet Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 im a musician for a living, so my life is way different from his probably. but the girl im dating right now is 24 and im 28. sometimes when im done with stuff that im doing and even when im gigging, i just need to relax. also i dont like to talk just for talking.a lot of my friends are the same way . but im very different from most other guys in alot of ways. i will say this. in his defense, he may just be old fashioned and not wanting to rush things, like trying to make sure before he pursues more. also just be cautious with him. sometimes guys are stupid and think they can outsmart a younger girl and play them . guard your heart. i hope he's legit.
quietintrovertgirl Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 I gave a man my number this tuesday and i already written him off.
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