ImMovingOn Posted October 31, 2006 Posted October 31, 2006 I've been seeing a guy for about 8 months. He's the most generous and loving person I've ever been with but we just had no chemistry. I was trying to hold on but knew it wouldn't last too much longer. Anyway, we went out together last Sunday and got into an argument and said some hurtful things to each other. I woke up the next morning and knew it was over. I feel terrible for being the one to end it but it would be worse to see him again knowing it would be for the last time. Well his bday is next week. I feel terrible that we are breaking up right before his bday but if I go through with our planned celebrations it would just end in tears. For the past 2 months I have been getting him presents. I have them all wrapped up in a box and (of course) have thrown away the receipts. I am trying no contact. But should I send him his presents? My friends say no but he is such a wonderful person I think Id feel even worse about myself if I didnt send them. He's already looking at spending his 35th bday alone, but I dont know whether receiving these gifts will send him mixed messages... Any advice?
LonelyGuy Posted October 31, 2006 Posted October 31, 2006 I dont get you women. I just broke up with a girl couple days ago and today is my birthday. I would want nothing from her. Why would i want to have any memories of the girl if there is a break up? Let the guy move on, dont hurt him anymore.
Im Moving On Posted November 1, 2006 Posted November 1, 2006 I'm trying not to make this an acrimonious situation. I have no hard feelings towards him and I know he doesn't towards me either. He has been wanting this break up for awhile and hinting around it. Its the best decision for both of us. I also dont know why $500 worth of presents, many that I know he will absolutely love, should go to waste! Does anyone else have any advice??
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