Guest Posted October 31, 2006 Posted October 31, 2006 Hello, I am having a problem with a girl currently at school. I am not asking if this girl happens to like me, but I am wondering if she happens to show some interest by her actions. I have never really talked to her but I don't believe she acts as other girls around school. Other girls which clearly arnt interested in me hardly notice me when I walk passed them in the hall, they may glance but they may continue talking to their friends or look forward. While this girl normally looks at me whenever she walks passed. Normally when I look at her, she is glancing in my direction or turning away. I am a decent looking guy, about 6'2, 170 lbs, dark brown hair and eyes. I am pretty athletic as I play tennis for the high school, so I believe I would have a chance with her. The problem I am having is actually looking at her, trying to make her seem as if I am interested in her. I normally just look away or don't acknowledge her when she walks passed and I regret it everytime. It is just extremely hard and awkward to stare at her for a long period of time, or talk to her out of the blue. I am just worried she may feel weird if I continue to stare at her, I dont want that result. Is there anything I can do to possibly ward away the nervousness and straight up stare or acknowledge her. Previously, I notice her look at me whenever I happen to stand up in class and I often times catch eye contact when I do glance towards her, looking away quickly of course. In the hallway, I was talking to a friend of mine, I walked passed her locker, and I called out for him. She looked away from her locker and towards me, normally people dont change their gaze when they are concentrating on getting things from their locker. This has happened multiple times. She also happens to know my name, which, I have never talked to her for more than a couple minutes. I believed is odd, although she does take attendance for the class, just making the connection I believe may show some interest. Well, after I am finished rambling, I am just wondering if any of those signs justify some sort of interest. If I happen to jump out of my comfort zone to possibly get to know her and change our relationship then I would like to know if I would have any means of success. Are there any other signs I could look out for if she is possibly interested. Thank you.
Guest Posted October 31, 2006 Posted October 31, 2006 Is there any suggestions? I have liked this girl for quite sometime, and I can never work up enough courage to talk to her. She, being a senior, will graduate after this year and I can honestly say I will miss her. I see her many times during the day and those moments are what I enjoy most of my school day. It is weird, I have never felt this way about a girl. I just love looking at her, seeing her smile and laugh. I just want to know if the things I have mentioned happen to be significant enough to think she is interested in myself, and what things should I look out for, for possible signs of interest. My last question being, I want to try and catch her gaze and look at her for a couple seconds, showing some kind of interest myself, but ... I always tend to look away. Any helpful suggestions to help dampen that fear? Once again, I have never liked anyone so much. I mean, as pansy as it sounds, the last time I held eye contact with her my heart went crazy. I have never experienced something so intense, I think about her almost non - stop and I could honestly stare at her for hours (So damn cute). So, what should I do? Being a shy individual who is afraid of rejection. I mean, just the straight up being rejected is not so bad, but being embarrased about it is what I fear. I have a lot of friends, so word will spread some way, and it will just be embarassing. So, does anyone think she shows any interest signs, and(or) is there anything I should specifically look out for. I mean, I really dont want to stare at her for a bit, because I am afraid of catching her eyes, how akward it would be thinking im stalking her. I guess that could be a good thing, being afraid of looking at each other at the same time, knowing she actually is looking at me frequently. (I believe she does look at me frequently) Just weird. Thanks.
simpsonsfan Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 dude, there's no one on this forum that could make you go for it...you've got to do it for yourself... just go for it before someone else gets the guts to do it before you! Assuming she is as cute as you say, then it won't be long, and i doubt she'll be waiting for you for long. Just think of how happy you'd be once you get a date with her.
Guest Posted November 4, 2006 Posted November 4, 2006 dude, there's no one on this forum that could make you go for it...you've got to do it for yourself... just go for it before someone else gets the guts to do it before you! Assuming she is as cute as you say, then it won't be long, and i doubt she'll be waiting for you for long. Just think of how happy you'd be once you get a date with her. I OFTEN WONDER WHY ANYONE WOULD QUESTION SOMETHING LIKE THAT ESPECIALLY IF SOMEONE HAS SPENT 200 YEARS HANGING IN THERE THRU THINGS NO ONE ELSE WOULD EVEN BELIEVE IN DO U REALLY NEED AN ANSWER TO THAT QUESTION?
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