Buttaflyy Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Yesterday, the BF called me sweetie. The day before that, he called me honey. I didnt like this one bit. Its at this point that they start to take you for granted. I just didnt like it, and it made me bristle with uncomfortableness and I hung my head down dejectedly... If this is what I have to look forward to, then forget it. Do you think this means the passion is on it's way out? Not necessarily!
a4a Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 May I suggest you get a part time Master or Mistress. (A4A cracks whip and puts on her leather thigh boots)
a4a Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Whenever my H starts with the kissy kissy sweety honey thing , I just make gagging noises and start to talk about sience ...He gets the idea. Do like I did yesterday to my H....... told him: "Bioytch go make me a sandwich" That shuts them up with their lovey dovey crap.
Buttaflyy Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Whenever my H starts with the kissy kissy sweety honey thing , I just make gagging noises and start to talk about sience ...He gets the idea. Oooooh I would so die for this! Come on you guys, what's wrong with romance? My BF says "cut the mushy sh*t" when I get like this! I wish he would be this way more often.
tinktronik Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Oooooh I would so die for this! Come on you guys, what's wrong with romance? My BF says "cut the mushy sh*t" when I get like this! I wish he would be this way more often. Blah , why would you want to be treated like a sweet tart ? Personally it makes me want to castrate men when I hear them refering to their s/o's as sweet honey baby ohhey googy gumdrop snargle face baby. Im nauseated.
Author typical Posted October 30, 2006 Author Posted October 30, 2006 Whenever my H starts with the kissy kissy sweety honey thing , I just make gagging noises and start to talk about sience ...He gets the idea. :lmao: Science Rocks. I just dont like that shyt. Honey and Sweetie sounds so fake. I told him to not ever call me those words again and swiftly walked away. He looked very perplexed, but its all for the best, really. Honey. Sweetie. It made me real sad when he said that. For some reason, I thought we would be the last of the die hard rebelious couples.
Buttaflyy Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 LMAO! Dag ya'll! That's tuff! What's a guy to do?
Art_Critic Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Personally it makes me want to castrate men when I hear them refering to their s/o's as sweet honey baby ohhey googy gumdrop snargle face baby. Im nauseated. Same here.. Honey buns.. I've never been the type to do that.. makes me gag.. Any pet name just means you're whipped or PW'd.. Who wants to be whipped or PW'd ? that is for sissys..
a4a Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Blah , why would you want to be treated like a sweet tart ? Personally it makes me want to castrate men when I hear them refering to their s/o's as sweet honey baby ohhey googy gumdrop snargle face baby. Im nauseated. shanookums..........
Buttaflyy Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Same here.. Honey buns.. I've never been the type to do that.. makes me gag.. Any pet name just means you're whipped or PW'd.. Who wants to be whipped or PW'd ? that is for sissys.. It does! That's why I love it! I love when a man steps out of his normal realm for me. To an extent though. I'm just remembering something that happened last night, similar to the rest of the ladies... just yesterday I snapped at my BF for calling me "Boo". I HATE that! He asked what he could call me because, "sweety", or "honey" won't work. I agree they do sound corny, but I told him to call me by my name if he has to ask. Everytime he calls me "BOO", I say "who".
dgiirl Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Its not too late to change your mind and move over to the dark side ok ok so my IDEAL relationship would be with someone who's totally level headed about 90% of the time, and then sweeps me off my feet with total unexpected hot raw passion. I dont want to be jealous over a guy, it makes me feel insecure and I dont like that feeling. I want to know that he's crazy about me and only me, but I also want him to have a backbone. Someone brave enough to tell me how it is. I know what I want in my head, yet noone has ever come close to it. I havent even come close to how I wish I could be. Ah C'est la vie.
tinktronik Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 It does! That's why I love it! I love when a man steps out of his normal realm for me. To an extent though. I'm just remembering something that happened last night, similar to the rest of the ladies... just yesterday I snapped at my BF for calling me "Boo". I HATE that! He asked what he could call me because, "sweety", or "honey" won't work. I agree they do sound corny, but I told him to call me by my name if he has to ask. Everytime he calls me "BOO", I say "who". If a man is willing to submit himself to humiliating baby names he most likely won't be able to kill me any dinner. I want a man who can kill me dinner so "ill never be hungry again. If he can't kill me dinner , I can kill it myself , but he'd better go find his own.
Art_Critic Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 I HATE that! He asked what he could call me because, "sweety", or "honey" won't work. I have used sweety and honey before.. but only in relationships that were already grounded and not new ones.. I think even sweetheart was used before.. I think using their name is the best thing..
a4a Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 If a man is willing to submit himself to humiliating baby names he most likely won't be able to kill me any dinner. I want a man who can kill me dinner so "ill never be hungry again. If he can't kill me dinner , I can kill it myself , but he'd better go find his own. :lmao: :lmao:
Author typical Posted October 30, 2006 Author Posted October 30, 2006 but I told him to call me by my name if he has to ask. excellent point. Somehow, I feel like I cant settle down for normalcy. Why do I do this to myself?? I just want passion. Why do they have to be so complacent with it all when I am just getting warmed up?
a4a Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 excellent point. Somehow, I feel like I cant settle down for normalcy. Why do I do this to myself?? I just want passion. Why do they have to be so complacent with it all when I am just getting warmed up? what is normalcy? your standard...........
Author typical Posted October 30, 2006 Author Posted October 30, 2006 The thing is, is that I get extremely irritated when I feel like they ("they" is men in this situation) arent being raw with me. And for some reason, the words Sweetie and Honey imply that they are being unreal with me, and that is completely unacceptable to me.
Author typical Posted October 30, 2006 Author Posted October 30, 2006 what is normalcy? your standard........... Not sure, I guess...and I keep searching for this everywhere I run to, but I cant find it, and it makes my soul weep.
Art_Critic Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 The thing is, is that I get extremely irritated when I feel like they ("they" is men in this situation) arent being raw with me. And for some reason, the words Sweetie and Honey imply that they are being unreal with me, and that is completely unacceptable to me. There is something not real sweetie or honey.. I know when I was growing up my parents called each other sweetie and honey.. Maybe you should come up with something hot and trashy for him to call you when alone instead of weak and normal
tinktronik Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Not sure, I guess...and I keep searching for this everywhere I run to, but I cant find it, and it makes my soul weep. How sad. Perhaps your expectations are a bit unrealistic.
Buttaflyy Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Terms of endearment aren't unreal or fake (unless the person is being condescending). Some of them I like, some of them I don't, but usually it implies comfort in the person you are with. It's the idea of having a special name for the one you are in a relationship with that no one else would use.
a4a Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Terms of endearment aren't unreal or fake (unless the person is being condescending). Some of them I like, some of them I don't, but usually it implies comfort in the person you are with. It's the idea of having a special name for the one you are in a relationship with that no one else would use. does retarded azzwhole count as a term of endearment?
Buttaflyy Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 does retarded azzwhole count as a term of endearment? It depends on who you're talking to. Different strokes for different folks.
Author typical Posted October 30, 2006 Author Posted October 30, 2006 I am not implying that your parents were weak and normal, art, just that for ME in MY relationship, I personally detest those words.... And I didnt mean to imply that I want to be called dirty trashy names.... Perhaps I have commitment fears.... Thanks for insight.
Art_Critic Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 does retarded azzwhole count as a term of endearment? My ex wife thought so .. cheap MF'ng pric* was another that she used all the time
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