Guest Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 In short, I want you to tell me where the 'normal' in love for dogs begins and ends and enters obsession or something of the like that is not generally expected to be tollerated. I have a long distance girlfriend; I love her very much and she loves me back. She's on college studying stomatology and lives alone in her appartment and most of her time, she spends on college and when she returns she's studying. She got her a Yorkshire terrier puppy a few months back and sure, those little things are adorable, but right at the beginning as we were talking on skype she's been interrupting me a zillion times in the middle of a sentence in the middle of something I was telling, saying something like 'OMG look, he is sooooo cute' or, 'LOL, I wish you could see what he's doing, he's so funny!' etc. etc.. Most of the time, she can't talk to me without holding him on her lap playing with his fur and occasionally he would bite her just a bit and she would go "AUUUUAAA" and this, again, just throws me off ballance. She lets him sleep on the bed and says his favourite spot is on the pillow, at her head, she says he is her little prince and she loves and adores him, he's practically a family member. And yesterday she told me, when I'll come see her, I'll just have to accept the dog will sleep with us. -????? I must also say I like dogs alot, I've had a few, and I loved the last one the most, but they were all outside dogs. I live out of town, practically in a village and the dog could be unleashed and free, never had any problems, and I very seldom brought them inside. Now, please tell me what she's doing is completely normal, that I'm crazy for even thinking about this, and that everything is going to be fine. Oh, and also this, imagine we're in bed, dog's with us, of course, and we kiss and lead one thing to another and then she realizes we're gonna have secks and takes the dog to the bathroom. And when we're done, she'd bring him back. Every ****ing time. And if I take the long way with, I don't know, ice cubes, baby oil, I bet the dog's gonna start crying in the bathroom at a certain point and she'd have to get up, comfort the dog, come back and we continue just where we left off until we get interrupted again and then she'd bring him back and he'd sleep on the pillow by her head. Is this sweet or what?
norajane Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Well, puppies do require a lot of attention. And if she's serious about her studies, the puppy is probably her main outlet for affection. Since you havne't visited yet with the puppy, you're imagining the worst with the whole bathroom and bed thing and what not. Just take it a day at a time and see what happens.
a4a Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Hey get over it, the dog obviously makes her happy and you seem jealous of the dog....... so she sleeps with the dog and the dog keeps her company, be thankful she could be putting all that love and attention on another guy instead of the dog while you are not with her. Do yourself a big favor and go buy the dog some toys and take them with you when you visit...... some damn tasty chew toys and some cutsie crap too... see she will be so pleased you got her little 'prince' a gift you are gonna get laid and not only that give the lil furball the chew toy and do your deed.....that should keep the dog occupied while you are there.....hell get the dog a little dog bed and a chew toy...... problem solved and you score big points and you actually will "score" too. :D Always think of how to use a situation to your advantage...... get with it man! :lmao: think think outside of the box..... make it a win win win situation!
laRubiaBonita Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 i would have to re-evaluate ANY Relationship i had involving someone who has a Lapdog!
a4a Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 i would have to re-evaluate ANY Relationship i had involving someone who has a Lapdog! Hey now they come in very handy when you run out of toilet paper!
laRubiaBonita Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Hey now they come in very handy when you run out of toilet paper! a lab has a bigger tounge!
magichands Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 i would have to re-evaluate ANY Relationship i had involving someone who has a Lapdog! Couldn't agree more! There is room for only one lapdog in a relationship...or get ready for some hearty growling.
tanbark813 Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 I agree with NJ that you're imagining the worst. However, I do think it's rude of her to interrupt you in the middle of a sentence when on the phone just to make a remark about the dog. Next time she does that just tell her to call you back when she's not as busy and hang up.
magichands Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Next time she does that just tell her to call you back when she's not as busy and hang up. Do that, and you'll be the one in the doghouse.
tanbark813 Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 Do that, and you'll be the one in the doghouse. Common nice guy, afraid-of-the-little-woman response. It's rude to not give your attention to the person with whom you're on the phone. Trust me, I've done stuff like this with girls before and it gets the message across.
magichands Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 It's rude to not give your attention to the person with whom you're on the phone. So call waiting is rude? I will have to drop that bitch-ass "feature" from my phone line.
tanbark813 Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 So call waiting is rude? Yes, that's exactly what I said.
tanbark813 Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 You rude bastard. I'm not f**king you so it's okay.
Touche Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 So call waiting is rude? I will have to drop that bitch-ass "feature" from my phone line. I actually do think that call-waiting is rude. It's no different than what the OP's g/f is doing. If you're not giving the person you're talking to your full attention, it's rude. Plain and simple. Unfortunately, I have it on my phone. It comes as part of the package but I never take another call if I'm talking to someone else and it buzzes...well, except for when I'm talking to Mom and it's H (does that mean I'm being rude to Mom? Hmmmmm..._
magichands Posted November 2, 2006 Posted November 2, 2006 well, except for when I'm talking to Mom and it's H (does that mean I'm being rude to Mom? Hmmmmm..._ I actually agree. But it is so cool to piss people off. I like putting them on hold for no reason at all - it creates this aura of self-importance.
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