Guest Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 What does it mean when a women tell you she doesn't know what she wants. We have been together for 5 1/2 years and have two wonderful little boys. And she is telling me she doesn't know if she loves me like she should and she doesn't know if she wants to work things out. We had a relationship where we lacked in talking things out and we both just shut it in but towards the last year I was trying and she was telling me to just let her work it out and it sucked being left on the side lines. When we did split up she told me to take the kids and leave and she has decided to live in her car and doesn't even have a job to support herself much less the boy's.Can anyone help me figure this one out. So please help me out.
magichands Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 and have two wonderful little boys. My heart is bleeding...I'm sorry that you're going through this. I hope that you continue to do what is best for the boys.
dropdeadlegs Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 My immediate reaction to the little bit of info is that she has someone else. That's the only way leaving the kids and living in her car makes any sense to me. I can't imagine leaving my kids, I would feel guilty and miss them too much, but it seems to happen a lot. I bet she won't be living in the car for long, though. That seems like a smokescreen for what I consider to be a very selfish act. Since you posted in the Dating forum I assume the two of you never married. How long have you been split up?
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