Guest Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 I have recently dated (5 months )a police officer which I have known for many years. she broke up after being confused with feeling and emotions that keept coming up that reminder her of her ex. Many unresolved issues still remain and she needs her space and time to heal. She wants to figure out why she made the choices she did and make sure she does not in the future. She however is hidding in her work and has no time for herself. A child is involved therefore introduction into her life as a partner is also a huge concern. I on the other hand am the greatest catch (no BS), i have been patient, given her space, have not been emotionally overwhelming and still end up with the short end of the stick...... How much time should go by Any advice on what to do? Is their any divorced women with some advice...?
blon_dee Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Thats a real tricky question.. I have been seperated for 2 years, and after 2 more failed relationships, i can blame most of it on my emotional issues from my marriage. Its so hard to open up and let anyone in again. In fact, i just broke up with my bf because of all this too. Now, 9 days later i am regretting it. Such a tricky one for you. Who knows how long it can take to heal the old wounds? I wish someone could tell me too. Sounds you are a great catch by the way, shes a lucky girl. Good luck
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