suchislife Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 He wants to date. If you check the previous posts - I wrote that both of us are really busy and we never seem to spend time together - I asked all the time - he is in an accelerated Master's program, coaches 2 sports, and teaches full time. Maybe the time apart helped. I don't know. I just know that I'm taking it one step at a time and will be honest and straight forward about how I feel. I didn't pull any punches but was nice about it. He said he isn't sure exactly what he wants, but he knows he wants to date. I told him the same thing, and that if that is the way we both feel we need to make sure we are on the same page so there won't be drama. I wasn't sure how to find my past posts about this and really didn't want to spend too much time fretting, I just want to take one day at a time, and although I really care about him, I need to stay focused on making sure I take care of my own life too. Know what I mean? Something happend to me when I spent so much time alone. I did things with friends, but I had time to think about my life. I want to continue working on myself, I just don't feel so dependent on anything, if that is the right word. It feels quietly good, yet I like the thought of having someone I enjoy be part of my life. I feel like I have found a better balance. Not so multitasking, intense, driven. This has always been hard for me, and now it's time to slow down and enjoy life. I'm scaring myself.
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