bbgrlnas Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and have a beautiful baby. For the past 2 months he has changed alot. He used to come home after work and now doesn't. He sometimes doesn't even come home. He confessed to me that he started using coke which he did in the past and then stopped and hasn't done it since. He recently stopped it again and was withdrawing pretty bad. He says that things will be ok with us but does nothing to prove it. When he says he's gonna be home, he never is. When he says he's gonna call he doesn't not even to check on our daughter. Everyone and everything comes before our baby and me. I already told him that if things didn't change that I couldn't be with him, but I always end up giving in and letting him hurt me all over again. I want this to work because I'm afraid to be a single mom even though he's not around. I don't know what to do. When he doesn't call, I usually give in and call him and he doesn't answer his phone anyways. I'm afraid to be alone and I'm afraid that I'll always be alone. I do know that I can't let my daughter be in this enviornment if he doesn't step up and be a dad. How do you do the NC with a baby involved. I do love him and I want it to work for my baby. What do I do.
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