stillbits12 Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 I've been seeing this guy for about 3 weeks now. I am about to go to Europe to study for at least five months (maybe more) in January, so I wasn't really looking for anything serious. He is about graduate from Graduate school and start his job in June in the same city. On our second date, he expressed disappointment when I told him that I was going abroad and joked that that wouldn't stop him from visiting. I didn't think anything of it at the time because I figured it was just his turning on the charm. But by our third and fourth dates, he started to talk about our being in a relationship, like "this is the best start of a relationship I've had." And when we are just hanging out, he will keep telling me how beautiful I am and where I've been all his life. He once said that he didn't mind being dumped by his ex-girlfriends because it meant that he would eventually get to the right girl (me). I asked him if he said that to every girl he only knew for a couple of weeks, and he said that was the first time he'd said that. Don't get me wrong, I think he's a really great guy and we have a lot of fun together and it's not like I'm non-commital, I'm just wondering if this is normal? I have only had one other relationship, and it definitely did not start like this. He spoils me to bits -- buys me dinner every time we go out -- and is extremely sweet. I'm not thinking about running away, I just want to know what other people think of this situation? Or if there is anything I should alert myself to in particular? Thanks.
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