sadwife33 Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 I just needed someone to talk to so I thought I would join this forum....I married my longtime buddy last December, and at the timt I thought I had the perfect guy! I moved from my hometown to a city I knew nothing about because I was just going to step out on faith and give love a chance. I have 2 children a boy who is 16 and a girl who is 9, my husband has a son who is 13 that he has custody of. Our relationship started out to be rocky from the start, he owned a home that was about to be foreclosed on that was a total surprise, all the utilities had to be put in my name because he had not paid any of his bills. Around March his son's mother comes back in the picture(she lost her parental rights) due to prison time from a drug addiction and prostitution. I treated this child like my own and when she came back our relationship suffered because her and my husband thought I had no say so in a child I was responsible all around the board. Come to find out I thought he was cheating on me with her but it was her friend his ex girlfriend.
Mr. Lucky Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 Our relationship started out to be rocky from the start, he owned a home that was about to be foreclosed on that was a total surprise, all the utilities had to be put in my name because he had not paid any of his bills. You probably have grounds for an annulment. You need to think about your two kids - is this what you want for them? Time to move back to your hometown and get your life back together. I wouldn't delay. Mr. Lucky
Yamaha Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 I married my longtime buddy last December, and at the timt I thought I had the perfect guy! You don't mention that you married your love last December but that you married you buddy. Any significance to this statement or are you just feeling overwhelmed because of all the problems you have encountered?
RecordProducer Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 He just married you (at the same time when I got married for the second time) and already cheated on you?! I don't think he loves you. And I don't think you're happy with him. I think it's time for you to sekk your way out of the marriage.
LakesideDream Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 Sounds like marrying your "Buddy" was a boo-boo. The advice to seek an annullment was good advice. Arrainge for a legal consult and see if it can be done... quick. Avoid the hassle of divorce if possible.
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