Veyon Posted April 15, 2002 Posted April 15, 2002 I recently intersted in a guy who is my lecturer. He is devorced and very kind. Should I let him know I have feelings with him? How?
Tony T Posted April 15, 2002 Posted April 15, 2002 That he is your lecturer implies that you are taking a class with him. If that's the case, wait until the course is completed and then ask him out for lunch or some special event. For now, just talk to him, make good conversation, and flirt a little bit. But if he is any kind of decent person, he won't go out with his students while they are taking a class from him. By all means, explore this when the classes are completed.
clia Posted April 16, 2002 Posted April 16, 2002 I believe most schools have policies against teachers dating students. If you do anything at all, you should wait until after you are out of his class. Have you ever socialized with him outside of class? Do you even know what he is like outside of class, if he has a girlfriend, etc.? My suggestion would be to swing by his office next semester and tell him how much you liked his class. See how he responds to you. You should be able to tell by his response if he is interested or not. Don't chase him down, whatever you do. I recently intersted in a guy who is my lecturer. He is devorced and very kind. Should I let him know I have feelings with him? How?
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