Guest Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 i hate myself soo much for not being over my ex yet...im really trying I just don't understand how im still sad about this when he is having such a great time i'm in such a lucky position tho compared to my friends who are goin through a break up cos i no it will be alot more difficult for them to find someone else and move on but they are handling it better than me what can i do to get over this and start smiling again.
rastafari Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 well you could go out and go to a bunch of concerts with your friends a meet a lot of new people and eat a bunch a food and drink some beer. thats a good start. once you start having more fun without them you may start to move on. i have had more fun this week then i have had with my ex that i dated for 2 years. thank god she dumped me. you will be completely fine in a year after all the anniversies and holidays pass once. thats my 2 cents....
neiu Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 well if anything, if it is really over then it's time to move on. Stop any contact you have with him and start living life for yourself. Do the things that you have always wanted to do, things that make you happy. When you start living again, it'll get better.
luvtoto Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 i hate myself soo much for not being over my ex yet... Why would you hate yourself for that?? what can i do to get over this and start smiling again. Well, first off, try not being so hard on yourself. Allow yourself plenty of time to grieve. Took me four years to get over my X. But, I did...and now am happy. Learn to love yourself. Sometimes, that means being single for a while, and concentrating on yourself.
Guest Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 i hate myself soo much for not being over my ex yet...im really trying I just don't understand how im still sad about this when he is having such a great time i'm in such a lucky position tho compared to my friends who are goin through a break up cos i no it will be alot more difficult for them to find someone else and move on but they are handling it better than me what can i do to get over this and start smiling again. Hey there. Time heals all wounds. Don't stop yourself from grieving. Grieve so you can get it all out of your system. Once you've gone through that process, you'll slowly get back on your feet and realise to yourself it all happened for the better and you'll surely come out a better person in the end. Just hang in there and give yourself time. Lifes too short to just stay in a nutshell. Enjoy life to the fullest because you never know when it's going to end. Go hang out with your friends, go do things you love doing. I know you feel like it's impossible to get over this person, that's how i felt when it happened. But just give yourself time and you'll be a better person in no time!! Goodluck and stay strong.
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