LonelyGuy Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I am hurting so much right now. Though it is a LDR(Long distance relationship), i still hurt regardless. She lied to me about several things and i ended it several days ago. I was very mad at her, but i get the urge to get in contact with her. I want her to regret what she has done and feel bad for it. I don't want her to move on. I know its bad of me, but i cant help it, I keep checking my cell to see if she has left message and of course nothing. I feel empty inside. What should i do? Move on or contact her and feel pain again? I have anxiety to begin with and talking to her and not knowing what she is doing really gave me panic attacks. We talked everyday, and its hard not talking now. Its taking every ounce of strength not to call her or text her. Someone please help me and give me some advice. Thanks.
gfto Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 Delete ALL her contact info (phone numbers, e-mail addresses, etc.), then just forget about her and focus on getting some new phone numbers. You'll feel much better.
Art_Critic Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 Delete ALL her contact info (phone numbers, e-mail addresses, etc.), then just forget about her and focus on getting some new phone numbers. You'll feel much better. I agree with GFTO.. When you take your own future in your own hands and make the decision to exorcise the other person out of your life you feel good and get strength from it.
alphamale Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 When you take your own future in your own hands masturbation is the key, brother....
Guest Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 I am hurting so much right now. Though it is a LDR(Long distance relationship), i still hurt regardless. She lied to me about several things and i ended it several days ago. I was very mad at her, but i get the urge to get in contact with her. I want her to regret what she has done and feel bad for it. I don't want her to move on. I know its bad of me, but i cant help it, I keep checking my cell to see if she has left message and of course nothing. I feel empty inside. What should i do? Move on or contact her and feel pain again? I have anxiety to begin with and talking to her and not knowing what she is doing really gave me panic attacks. We talked everyday, and its hard not talking now. Its taking every ounce of strength not to call her or text her. Someone please help me and give me some advice. Thanks. Make new friends, meet new people. You don't need someone who is gonna lie to you even know you feel she might be the right one for you. You just gotta stay busy and become dependant on yourself. Join a website.... play video games, go out with friends.... anything to keep your mind active and off her..... Dont be the one chasing man.
LonelyGuy Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 what did she lie about? We live far apart, but i was under the impression we were in a committed relationship. She obviously thought it isn't going to work and slept with someone else. I had to ask her if she had done anything with anyone. She barely got the nerve to answer the question. I just couldn't take it anymore. Hurts like hell.
LonelyGuy Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 Keep thinking she might call some day, but nothing. Its my bday October 30th and i doubt she calls even then. I broke it off, but still miss the contact. Is this normal? Just feeling depressed today. Thanks for listening.
Ssheena Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Yup, I'd say that's normal. I still look for emails and phone calls too. Might hurt worse if she called. She screwed around on you.. that's a deal breaker to me.
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