RecordProducer Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Actually two weeks ago we were all at a table in a club. She went to get a drink and this guy next to her said 'So you finally decided to come & talk to me', she's like 'What? I'm married'. He's like 'So, I don't care'. Well, she told me and when I went up to get my drink I just stook there staring at him for like 2 minutes. Until he finally said to his buddy 'I think we should get our tab'. I'm like 'Yup, good choice'. lol.. Honestly men in that envirnoment don't care if the woman is married or not. I think they just want a good ole fight with another guy and use your wife as a bait to get you going!
ThumbingMyWay Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I think they just want a good ole fight with another guy and use your wife as a bait to get you going! theres turth to that... I was on a boys weekend in the north woods a while back... one of my "boys" is a huge player...so he starts hittin on this chick...knowing she was with someone...well...at one point he followed her to the bathroom...well her guy came over and started saying to leave her alone... which my boy should have...but he was drunk and didnt give a rip...so words are flying and some other dudes in the house starting taken sides with the local dude...since we were "out of towners"...I think on of the said...who do yuuo think you are coming in to our house and starting ****... well it got real ugly after that.....huge bar brawl.....not me though...I stayed out of it...but almost got clocked out side...good thing for my negociation skills.. :lmao: so after a hole in the wall, 2 broken bar stools, 1 broken pool cue and 12 stitches later....we vowed never to go to that bar again... come to find out that the chick was cheating with the guy she was with...hahahaha...so the OM had to hold his ground for fear of her cheating on him... really ugly situation to be in.....I could write a book about that weekend....lots of other crazy stories. Needless to say we are not going back to that town this year...
Mz. Pixie Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 theres turth to that... I was on a boys weekend in the north woods a while back... one of my "boys" is a huge player...so he starts hittin on this chick...knowing she was with someone...well...at one point he followed her to the bathroom...well her guy came over and started saying to leave her alone... which my boy should have...but he was drunk and didnt give a rip...so words are flying and some other dudes in the house starting taken sides with the local dude...since we were "out of towners"...I think on of the said...who do yuuo think you are coming in to our house and starting ****... well it got real ugly after that.....huge bar brawl.....not me though...I stayed out of it...but almost got clocked out side...good thing for my negociation skills.. :lmao: so after a hole in the wall, 2 broken bar stools, 1 broken pool cue and 12 stitches later....we vowed never to go to that bar again... come to find out that the chick was cheating with the guy she was with...hahahaha...so the OM had to hold his ground for fear of her cheating on him... really ugly situation to be in.....I could write a book about that weekend....lots of other crazy stories. Needless to say we are not going back to that town this year... OMG! This story sounds like one my exhusband might tell. Hilarious!
Mz. Pixie Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I think we're equally matched in the looks department. At the end of my first marriage I was more attractive than my exhusband- because he'd put on alot of weight and lost some hair. Those two things alone wouldn't have bothered me much but coupled with the neglect- yeah, that was a problem. I've had boyfriends in both spectrums more attractive and less attractive. There has to be an inital attraction though I guess. When I first accepted a date from my husband now I was like "He seems nice" Then by the end of the night from the first date I was like "He's hot". He's not my normal type- he's kind of a jock and when we first met he was unshaved and in sweats. But he cleaned up very nice!
hotgurl Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Actually two weeks ago we were all at a table in a club. She went to get a drink and this guy next to her said 'So you finally decided to come & talk to me', she's like 'What? I'm married'. He's like 'So, I don't care'. Well, she told me and when I went up to get my drink I just stook there staring at him for like 2 minutes. Until he finally said to his buddy 'I think we should get our tab'. I'm like 'Yup, good choice'. lol.. Honestly men in that envirnoment don't care if the woman is married or not. She wanted to dress up in the policewomen's costome and got me a bright orange prisoner jumpsuit that says 'Department of Corrections' on the back.. lol My friend was in a bar and this guy was hitting on her and she kept saying no not interested and finally she held up her left hand and said I'm engaged. (While showing him her ring) He said It's ok It's a challenge and just turns me on more. WTF!
Mythical Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 and ahh...never refer to them as old lady....LOL....I remember when I was 21 I introduced wife, then GF as "this is my woman"...I still get that thrown at me to this day... My boy and his friends refer to thier girlfriends as thir "old lady's" and im only 20!! lol
Buttaflyy Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 and ahh...never refer to them as old lady....LOL....I remember when I was 21 I introduced wife, then GF as "this is my woman"...I still get that thrown at me to this day... My boy and his friends refer to thier girlfriends as thir "old lady's" and im only 20!! lol That's funny especially being that you refer to him as your boy.
Mythical Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 My boy and his friends refer to thier girlfriends as thir "old lady's" and im only 20!! lol That's funny especially being that you refer to him as your boy. Oh god! I didn't even notice that!! hmmmm Where did that originate?/ ? Calling girlfriends "old ladys"??
Pyro Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Why thank you! And I love the job you've gotten done on your nose! You really think so? I'm not so sure. None of my outfits seem to look good with the nose.
Madaline Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Heck ya he's better looking then me. I'm the average looking person in the relationship. Does it affect the relationship? Ummm sometimes because I think that someone better looking will come along. Hes the one that gets girls looking at him. He said to me one that that people check me out but he's lying because I don't see it. But it does work in a good way too because when I see someone checking him out I think "Don't even think about it. He's MINE."
yousaveme Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 My SO always says he is waiting for me to wake up and relieze he is out of my league.
magichands Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 I find it is nigh impossible to judge your own hotness. I generally go for people that are so attractive to me that I am in danger of fainting. So I'm probably being far too picky. That doesn't answer the question, but I don't care.
Touche Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 I find it is nigh impossible to judge your own hotness. I generally go for people that are so attractive to me that I am in danger of fainting. So I'm probably being far too picky. That doesn't answer the question, but I don't care. Please don't faint, Magic.
magichands Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 Please don't faint, Magic. Haha. Now, now. The goddess has spoken. I think I could happily attempt meaningless sex with you, should you be willing...but I only faint when someone is twisting my nipples off the scale. And that usually doesn't happen until I really get to know someone. I think we're best at respecting each other from a distance. Besides, your head isn't on straight.
Touche Posted October 28, 2006 Posted October 28, 2006 Haha. Now, now. The goddess has spoken. I think I could happily attempt meaningless sex with you, should you be willing...but I only faint when someone is twisting my nipples off the scale. And that usually doesn't happen until I really get to know someone. I think we're best at respecting each other from a distance. Besides, your head isn't on straight. My head is not on straight? Interesting. I don't mind if you keep respecting me from a distance though.
Flyin in Clouds Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 Well of course my wife is better looking than me. She's a woman. ... Oh and Burning...not ALL guys "just" want to get off..not the good ones anyway. Actually I think it's more true than false. And I thought all you girls thought a hard man was good to find anyway. ... I don't really like how I look, ... Uh, why don't you let me be the judge of that? Of course I'd have to give you my personal inspection... There's this great little german restaurant in north Philly - Ottos... ... Anyway here's a pic of my old lady.. lol (with my pup) No wonder she gets hit on. And she's a lot better looking than you. Years ago we went to a bar with friends and I go to get us some drinks. I'm coming back and she's brushing off a guy... now he was cool about it and not an obnoxious jerk. I mean he asked, she said no she's with someone (just someone not her husband, thanks honey...), he moved on to his next victim. She wanted to dress up in the policewomen's costome and got me a bright orange prisoner jumpsuit that says 'Department of Corrections' on the back.. lol hmmm... something freudian in there... does she have a ball and chain to go with it... She better watch out though, a lot of women have thing for bad boys...
burning 4 revenge Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 Its becoming more and more common to see uglier women with better looking men Also older women with younger men When did us men start losing the advantage?
magichands Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 When did us men start losing the advantage? Ever heard of bare branches?
burning 4 revenge Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 Ever heard of bare branches? ???? I dont understand ,but if I know you that must mean something I just had a revelation.... I've been looking at the wrong girls. I thought I was looking at average looking women, but I forgot that most average looking women think they're hot. Maybe I need to look at ugly women and they'll think they're average
jmargel Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 My friend was in a bar and this guy was hitting on her and she kept saying no not interested and finally she held up her left hand and said I'm engaged. (While showing him her ring) He said It's ok It's a challenge and just turns me on more. WTF! Yea, I know.. alot of men don't care. We went out Sat. night and I had to take a phone call outside the bar, when I came in some 70 year old man was trying to flirt with my wife.. lol I just walked up and he got this frightened look on his face.. Now with being 70, more power to ya. lol I just made fun of my wife when he walked away. I dated this chick about 3 years ago and went to a club. This one guy kept staring at her and dancing near us. She was the type that could definetly take care of herself so after about 20 mins of this perv acting this way she motioned him over kinda in a flirty way, he comes over with all smiles. As she's smiling to him she slowly takes up her hand and gives him the middle finger. lol I couldn't stop laughing. He got the point then.
Flyin in Clouds Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 ... I dated this chick about 3 years ago and went to a club. This one guy kept staring at her and dancing near us. She was the type that could definetly take care of herself so after about 20 mins of this perv acting this way she motioned him over kinda in a flirty way, he comes over with all smiles. As she's smiling to him she slowly takes up her hand and gives him the middle finger. lol I couldn't stop laughing. He got the point then. well that was rude of her.... What? A guy isn't supposed to even look at hot women?
IpAncA Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 My SO is better looking then I am although he would disagree.
Flyin in Clouds Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 Yea, I know.. alot of men don't care. We went out Sat. night and I had to take a phone call outside the bar, when I came in some 70 year old man was trying to flirt with my wife.. lol I just walked up and he got this frightened look on his face.. Now with being 70, more power to ya. lol I just made fun of my wife when he walked away. Did it ever occur to you that maybe he lost his wife and he just wanted a woman to talk to... and flirt with a bit?
Buttaflyy Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 well that was rude of her.... What? A guy isn't supposed to even look at hot women? Initially I agreed with this but, it's rude to flirt with a woman when she is already in the company of a man.
Fun2BMe Posted October 30, 2006 Posted October 30, 2006 My SO is not better looking than me however I have seen pics of his ex's and if I consider myself a 9, they are all 10s which makes me feel insecure. Also, my last SO was let's say a 10 and that made me feel insecure too, as much as a good package as I am. I wonder if men experience this. I like when we are in public so he can see the men look at me so it reminds him to appreciate me in case he starts taking me for granted. On the other hand I hate being in public because there is a chance I'll catch him looking at another girl whereas in my past relationships my SO would never ever pay attention or look at women so I hate that. Also, my SO - current and the one right before, always refer me to me as "cute" and "cutie". This is confusing. Does it mean they don't think I'm beautiful? My SO called me cute on the phone last night and it's been bugging me more and more, I was tempted to tell him to stop callling me that. Does it mean he doesn't think I'm beautiful? Why call your SO cute and not beautiful?
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