a4a Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Spin off from the other thread...... but add on if you or your SO is better looking does this effect your R? If so how......... ? I wonder how many will admit their SO is better looking than they are
ThumbingMyWay Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Spin off from the other thread...... but add on if you or your SO is better looking does this effect your R? If so how......... ? I wonder how many will admit their SO is better looking than they are I will. But its all realative isnt it? I feel I am a good looking man...but I would say she is higher on the scale than myself.....when compared to me and yes...it affects our relationship.....my wife gets hit all on the time...stared at....oogled....I dont like it, I can be jealous and a bit insecure at times....but she cant help it either.... kinda like your tits getting oggled all the time.....we all know that affects your relationship....
hotgurl Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I think we're both good looking. But I am prettier and younger. He is cute. He has the disheleved laid back outdoor guy look.
burning 4 revenge Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I had a better looking face than my last SO, but she had a better body. Plus she's a girl, so even when a girl is less attractive they have more potential for sex. Guys just want to get off and you girls know this. There's many aspects to this question
Pyro Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 My SO and I are some fine looking individuals. We bring the entire package: she is fair skin, light hair and eyes and I am more dark complected.
luvtoto Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 My SO has an ass that makes me weak in the knees! Dang! I would say we are both equally attractive.
Touche Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Great question! I'd say that we're equal on the scale of attractiveness. That's a first for me. I've never thought that before in my past relationships. I've always thought either I was more attractive or the guy was. Oh and Burning...not ALL guys "just" want to get off..not the good ones anyway.
burning 4 revenge Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I'm just saying it's easier for girls to get laid, or maybe that's just the hedonistic culture I live in in S.FL, but I think it's almost universal. If an average looking girl goes to where the clubs are and puts out a vibe, or even more so, directly picks guys up well, she's going to get laid. The converse situation fails more times than it succeeds. You saw my last SO's pic. She's no beauty, right? She never has a problem getting f*cked
lighthouse Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 my "SO" is my dog at this time (see avator) and he is very cute so I think he is more handsome than I am pretty. No, I am not into sex with animals. lighthouse
Mythical Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 lol, Yes your dog is very cute I think me and my "SO" are equal as well. We both work really hard sto stay in shape and are both confident!
Buttaflyy Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 We're equally gawjus dahling! Strangers have told us that we look good together.
Sand&Water Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Reply: Is your SO better looking than you? The potential SO is indisputably better looking. As of right now, though, I can compensate and say: There is only one me! Sand&Water
RecordProducer Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I've always been better-looking than my partners and other people have told me this, too. Looks don't matter to me much when it comes to guys, but they have to be my type and have a decent (not hot) built. I don't really like how I look, but thousands of customers can't be wrong! Indeed all the guys who hit on me and whistled at me have contrubuted to my self-confidence when it comes to looks. They made me think: "OK, I am not perfect, but obviously they like me so I won't think about it anymore and I'll be content with what I have." I think that, although the better-looking one may not give a sh*t about looks, the less attractive partner ALWAYS feels insecure about it and expresses it in one way or another.
Touche Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I'm just saying it's easier for girls to get laid, or maybe that's just the hedonistic culture I live in in S.FL, but I think it's almost universal. If an average looking girl goes to where the clubs are and puts out a vibe, or even more so, directly picks guys up well, she's going to get laid. The converse situation fails more times than it succeeds. You saw my last SO's pic. She's no beauty, right? She never has a problem getting f*cked Ok, I get what you're saying. And yes, you're much more attractive than she is.
JackJack Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I consider myself a pretty decent looking guy, but my SO's boobs look way better than mine. :lmao:
Guest Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I've always been better-looking than my partners and other people have told me this, too. Looks don't matter to me much when it comes to guys, but they have to be my type and have a decent (not hot) built. I don't really like how I look, but thousands of customers can't be wrong! Indeed all the guys who hit on me and whistled at me have contributed to my self-confidence when it comes to looks. They made me think: "OK, I am not perfect, but obviously they like me so I won't think about it anymore and I'll be content with what I have." I think that, although the better-looking one may not give a sh*t about looks, the less attractive partner ALWAYS feels insecure about it and expresses it in one way or another. We get it already! You think you're hot stuff! First you claim you needed compliments from hubby, but you do well with complimenting yourself! Do you realise that you repeatedly stated how much better looking you are?
Pyro Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 We're equally gawjus dahling! Strangers have told us that we look good together. You look pretty fine to me. You look good with a witch hat on.
jmargel Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Burning 4 revenge, I agree with ya.. My pic is my avatar (you'll have to click on it to see a bigger pic) but my wife is a real hottie. 5'4, 110 lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes.. Kinda like heather locklear. It's frustrating because when we go out to a club there's always at least one guy that will try to hit on her.. They range from age.. 21 upto 70. lol.. not kidding ya. If she wants to dance with her female friends on the dance floor, forget it.. These guys up here are vultures and for some odd reason they think even if these chicks come in with a guy as long as they are not with one on the dance floor it's open season. I usually let it go the first time but once she tells them or moves away from them once & they still come back that's when I step in. She keeps telling me I'm her 'bodyguard' but in all reality it sucks. It's hard to enjoy yourself out in a place like that when you have to keep one eye out for trouble. I am kinda dreading this Saturday because her & two other couples are going with us to a club, a halloween contest. Well of course all 3 chicks want to dress sexy so to those guys out there it's like a huge billboard advertisement. At least my wife & the other 2 chicks told me they just like to dress up for fun, but honestly.. when you dress up in a short go-go dancers outfit and a short-skirt policewomen outfit for halloween don't you women have other motives? lol I've been hit on plenty of times though I guess to be noble I'd say she is better looking.
Buttaflyy Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 You look pretty fine to me. You look good with a witch hat on. Why thank you! And I love the job you've gotten done on your nose!
ThumbingMyWay Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 It's frustrating because when we go out to a club there's always at least one guy that will try to hit on her.. They range from age.. 21 upto 70. lol.. not kidding ya........It's hard to enjoy yourself out in a place like that when you have to keep one eye out for trouble. I hear that...us men are pigs...we really are.. but..I think its a little insecurity on my part....that I do admit...
melodymatters Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Um lets see...... The redneck who bashed my head against my car or me ???? Hell ya, I'm better looking !!! But, I'm the poster girl for " being pretty and thin doesn't make your relationships any better". I've been getting hit on nearly daily since I've been 12, but I've always picked losers, and my less attractive friends are happily married, so there ya go ! BTW, you didn't answer your own question a4a : You or Mr No initiative ?
jmargel Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I hear that...us men are pigs...we really are.. but..I think its a little insecurity on my part....that I do admit... There needs to be a little jealously in every relationship but when I walk in with my wife and they see this and still decide to hit on her (some guys have been very forward with her) not only is it disrespecting her, but me as well. When I was single and I noticed a nice looking woman with a guy I wouldn't approach her. Some guys just figure they have nothing to lose I guess.. Anyway here's a pic of my old lady.. lol (with my pup) http://home.ptd.net/~jmargel/brandythunder.jpg
RecordProducer Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 My pic is my avatar (you'll have to click on it to see a bigger pic) but my wife is a real hottie. 5'4, 110 lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes.. Kinda like heather locklear. Looks kinda like a German Sheppard to me! It's frustrating because when we go out to a club there's always at least one guy that will try to hit on her.. They range from age.. 21 upto 70 Hah! I told ya, guyz! She keeps telling me I'm her 'bodyguard' but in all reality it sucks. Maybe they will stop if she tells them that you're her husband? when you dress up in a short go-go dancers outfit and a short-skirt policewomen outfit for halloween don't you women have other motives? lolRight!Besides, Halloween is for kids. Oh, this gave me an idea. I'll suggest to hubby that we dress up for a Halloween parade: "I'll dress up like a Playboy bunny and you can wear a skeleton suit... oh.. second thought... you don't need one for a skeleton, just take your clothes off!"
ThumbingMyWay Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 When I was single and I noticed a nice looking woman with a guy I wouldn't approach her. Some guys just figure they have nothing to lose I guess.. me niether J....I guess I just have respect like you... Anyway here's a pic of my old lady.. lol (with my pup) http://home.ptd.net/~jmargel/brandythunder.jpg she reminds me a little of Cheryl Crow.....all good in my book...you are a lucky man... and ahh...never refer to them as old lady....LOL....I remember when I was 21 I introduced wife, then GF as "this is my woman"...I still get that thrown at me to this day...
jmargel Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Maybe they will stop if she tells them that you're her husband? Actually two weeks ago we were all at a table in a club. She went to get a drink and this guy next to her said 'So you finally decided to come & talk to me', she's like 'What? I'm married'. He's like 'So, I don't care'. Well, she told me and when I went up to get my drink I just stook there staring at him for like 2 minutes. Until he finally said to his buddy 'I think we should get our tab'. I'm like 'Yup, good choice'. lol.. Honestly men in that envirnoment don't care if the woman is married or not. She wanted to dress up in the policewomen's costome and got me a bright orange prisoner jumpsuit that says 'Department of Corrections' on the back.. lol
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