johan Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Ok, who has guts enough to post their lowest, most pathetic behavior in the course of a breakup? How mean and sniveling and obsessive can you get? What's the one thing you did that still makes you cringe when you look back? Me? I remember following my intuition and showing up at a guy's place where somehow I knew my (ex)girlfriend would be. How awkward and weird that was, I'm sure you can imagine. But it was one of those "I can't control myself, I must go find out NOW" moments. I had several rotten incidents in the course of letting her go.
Guest Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 back in my immature days....and let me say I know this was totally wrong and I wish I did not get this low but I said to her get your teeth fixed then come talk to me after she dumped me. that was the lowest thing. fortunately I have learned my lessons from those days
alphamale Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 my and my ex-g/f were in the car and we were drunk and fighting pretty badly. yelling, screaming, cursing....all that stuff. I pulled over to the shoulder and stopped the car. I got out and went over to the passenger door, opened it, grabbed her by her arms and violently threw her out. It was a truck so she had a long fall into the roadside ditch. I then got back into the car and split. She got lucky, I could have just as easily killed or maimed her because I was in such a rage.
Kittiecat Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I did a driveby of my now-ex's house the morning after his usual Saturday night out with the boys. I had endured one too many immediate calls to his VM (i.e. he was hitting "ignore"). Just as I was going to turn onto his street, who do I see coming out of the subdivision but HIM! I kept driving and sort of turned my head, hoping he wouldn't see. I then talked to him later than morning and asked how he was, what he's been up to, etc. Said he was still in his jammies, watching TV, blah blah. Frickin' liar. The worst part of my behavior is that I didn't call him out on it, and I didn't look closely enough to see if he had another girl in his car with him.
Ruff Ryder Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Mine is when I thought she was having an afair rocked up home from work ant 12:30am and ran into the house like a mad man on a mission she woke up with the fright of her life. I was in a fit of rage searching the house for the mystry man that only existed in my head. Throwing cloths ot the closet turninng the spare room inside out searching the garden with a toruch and a knife the size of my leg. Was utter madness. Was not fun explaining myself after. lol Never again.
luvtoto Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Six years ago, my x-fiance (B) had an affair with T. When I found out about it, I moved my kids and myself out of B's house. He started dating T within a matter of days. I was so pissed and enraged that I showed up at B's house, barged through his front door, walked all the way back to the bedroom where they both were sitting on the bed talking, dragged her ass out into the kitchen and proceeded to GO OFF on her!!! She was shaking. Luckily, no one pressed charges!! But, god dang I was pissed!! :mad: My friends, his friends talked about it for days afterwards...saying how uncharacteristic it was of me.
D-Lish Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 here's two for ya: #1 My ex husband and I were seperated trying to figure things out- he came back to the house one day to help get the house ready to sell and admitted he had "accidentally" gotten another woman pregnant on our break! I lost my mind- and he was coming up the basement stairs and I started pelting him with shoes as he was trying to come up the stairs... then I locked him in the basement and left him there for a few hours. #2: When I was young (quite young) I showed up to a party and caught my boyfriend making out with some girl in his car in front of the house. She took off and I got back in my car and rammed the back of my car into his car with him still in it...
magichands Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I moved half a world away to another country, just to stalk her. It didn't work out quite like I planned, and now I'm stuck here. I don't resent her for it, though...it was definitely worth a try. She's pretty special.
the_alchemyst Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I've done a lot of stuff for my exbf. I'll post a few right now: 1.) One night I decided to go to my exbf's house to leave him something. It was a note and a flower (I forget the name, but I remember its symbolism: "eternal love," in a gist). The note read something like: "I love you, and I am sorry if I have hurt you. But please know that in doing so, I have hurt myself even more." (I know, I know. I'm such a sap.) I tied the note and the little pink flower together with a small necklace that had a moonstone pendant on it because I always told him that to me, he was like the full moon--beautiful, radiant, and complete. Plus, I knew he would understand the meaning of the pendant. I got the things and placed them on the windshield of his car and went home. 2.) One day he told me that he had seen a movie that had reminded him a lot about us, and that after seeing it, he became saddened by it, since we were not together. Being the masochist that I am, I went to go watch the movie the next day to see what he was talking about, and I realized he was right: the couple in the movie did reflect us pretty well. In that movie there was a little horse stuffed-animal. The girl had bought him because he was beaten up and looked lonely, so she took him home. The guy saw this little horse, which the girl was by that time really fond of, and horse-napped him in order to "fix" him (he was a mechanical horse and was broken). He managed to make him walk again and the girl was so happy. Fast forward: this was the same little horse they both rode on off into the distance, away from all of the problems and towards happiness. I told him I was going to make a little horse just like that so he could keep. And I did. It was just too bad I'm not all that good at sewing. I managed to prick several of my fingers, but it was okay because I finally finished. It was really hard--much harder than I had planned, but he came out looking like the most sweet little horse ever. I love him. And I took it to his house and gave it to him, and he thanked me, with sadness in his voice (), and said he would take good care of the little horse. 3.) He had been without a job for nearly a month. I remember that the last time I had talked with him, he told me he had only about $200 dollars in his bank account and that he had to pay off some bill that was a little more than $100 (he didn't tell me the amount, but I knew because he told me what he was going to pay, and I remembered the amount from a previous conversation.). Anyway, I told him that if he needed money, to let me know and that I would lend some to him, since I know that when he's without a job, his mom gets really angry and begins to tell him all sorts of (mean) things. And I also know that he's really sentimental and that he easily gets hurt by said things, and I didn't want that, so I offered to help, instead. Well, we lost contact since that time, but one night I had a dream about him and he not having any more money. I remember I woke up at around 5 AM, and, on a whim, grabben two $50 dollar bills, my car keys, and drove to his house. It was really early and no on was around (on the streets, I mean). I knew he would have his driver's seat window slightly opened because he always does that, so I hurridly got out of my car and went to that side of the car. Sure enough, the window was cracked, and I slipped a $50 in there. Initially, I was going to leave both, but then I thought that would make it (more) suspicious, so I only left one (and left thinking I'd put the other one somewhere else another day). I mean, what if he needed gas? Or wanted to eat a little cheeseburger? I would be sad knowing he can't drive or eat because he has no money, so I did that. And that's all I can think of for now. Am I insane? EDIT: Yes, this was all for the same guy. My only guy.
Woggle Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I dated a woman in between marriages and she started crying after I broke up with her. I just stood there and laughed at her. Looking back on it I see it was pretty heartless.
magichands Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 It was really early and no on was around (on the streets, I mean). I knew he would have his driver's seat window slightly opened because he always does that, so I hurridly got out of my car and went to that side of the car. Sure enough, the window was cracked, and I slipped a $50 in there. That's so sweet of you. I would have attached a little note: "Thanks for everything you have done for me. I was wondering how I could ever pay you back for all the love and support during our relationship, but then I just decided to sit down and add it all up. And don't worry - you can keep the change." Only because a stink-bomb wouldn't fit.
luvtoto Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 After a few months of B & T dating...I was still obsessed and hurt. I broke into T's email account for reasons I don't even remember. I browsed through her email and then gave her a new password, which was "bitch". She called the cops for that one. Apparently, that is against the law! They didn't press charges. I still can't believe the state of mind I was in at that time. Scary. Never have done anything like that before. Now, if a guy wants to break it off with me...I just go on my merry little way...and let karma deal with things.
lighthouse Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 When I was in high school I went out of town for a week and a guy that I was seeing (and really liked) went and screwed around (not sex but still)with this girl - Nicole. Nicole was my friend but, to be honest, she slept with everyone in the world. Anyway, when I got back into town I went to the place that we all hung out at and Nicole called me - on the pay phone at this bar/restaurant - lol - to tell me about it. Then like 4 minutes later he showed up and looked at me and knew that I knew. He tried to talk to me about it but I was so furious I stormed out of the bar. When I pushed the door open I pushed it a little too hard and the door came off its hinges and broke!!! I was banned for 2 months. Anyway, we remained friends and then lost contact and then got back in touch years later. I told him "Why Nicole? She slept with everyone. Why not Mary who was so cool and so funny?" So in May I get a phone call. He and Mary are dating - LOL!! :lmao: I guess the worst I did was physically damage a door but I tend to pick bad guys and am normally running from then when we break up as opposed to me running after them. lighthouse
UnknowingOW Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 My one true psycho stunt was when I was 18. My 1st love and I were in the process of breaking up. However, we saw each other every day, dated, and spoke on the phone every evening before we went to bed. Anyway, I had this sick feeling he was up to something, and someone told me his car was always at this married woman's home. He was 17 at the time. So, I take my car and drive over there...sure enough the lights were out (it was 11pm). I walked up to her bedroom window which was open (by the way she was married and her husband had moved out) and said..."Tell <his name> to get his ass outside. She freaked...started screaming and whatnot..I think I called her a whore, but cannot remember all these years later. He jumped up and ran outside...I had the key to his car opened it up and took everything inside and ran like hell to my car and took off. The married woman called the cops, who were friends of my family. I tossed his things down the road and had my 1st drink ever in my life...which I might add I got sick on...lol. When I got home my parents were sitting in the family room and my dad said "Hay you been drinking?" I'm like are you kidding...they could tell on my first and only drink and I was 2-weeks from being legal to drink??? My mother said, the woman called our home and told my mom that if she didn't control her daughter she would have me arrested. As calmly as my mother could be (she was peeved at me for sure) she said, "Young woman, first never call my home again. Secondly, you are a married woman with 2-children...why don't you control yourself before you tell me to control my daughter". My parents did not ground me because I was heartbroken...I was engaged to this boy. Needless to say they married an have been for over 18-years. He called me 5-years ago to apologize for how he treated me. Today we are friends...funny how life is a big circle.
BenThereDunThat Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Hey Mikael - first, welcome to LS! Just a friendly nudge -- please separate your posts into paragraphs. Makes them a lot easier to read and also you don't want to the Mods coming down on ya!
luvtoto Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 You peeps is all crazy!!! Yea, I felt pretty damn crazy. Now I know what Temporary Insanity pleas are all about! Not that I had to use one...
Pyro Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Geez, I didn't want to have to think about this stuff. We were sitting in her car, yelling back and forth, which was a common thing for us. I reached over and yanked her rearview mirror down. I got out of the car and she followed and ran up to my passenger side door and started kicking it. Her dad had to come out and restrain her.
luvtoto Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Her dad had to come out and restrain her. According to the court system, they call that *subdueing*. NOT that I would know!
Pyro Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 According to the court system, they call that *subdueing*. NOT that I would know! But of course. I know what you did. You like me so much that you went and googled it for me.
Guest Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Ok, who has guts enough to post their lowest, most pathetic behavior in the course of a breakup? How mean and sniveling and obsessive can you get? What's the one thing you did that still makes you cringe when you look back? Me? I remember following my intuition and showing up at a guy's place where somehow I knew my (ex)girlfriend would be. How awkward and weird that was, I'm sure you can imagine. But it was one of those "I can't control myself, I must go find out NOW" moments. I had several rotten incidents in the course of letting her go. My childrens father left for 3 months without letting me know where he was and then one day he appeared at the door with roses for me, so I took the roses and said thank you and when he turned around I broke the roses and the vase on his head. lol
alphamale Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I got out of the car and she followed and ran up to my passenger side door and started kicking it. Her dad had to come out and restrain her. you should have beaten the snot out of her RIDDLER, that would have taught her a lesson.
lolablue Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I was seeing this guy and I suspected he was cheating on me with this girl. So we were at a party one night and she showed up... she was about 5'8" and about 140 lbs me 5'2" 105 lbs and I walked up to her and said so I hear your wanting to get into XXXX's pants she just looked at me and I smacked her across the face and she started to cry. Yea... not one of my better moments but I was so angry, needless to say XXXX and I left the party, and I broke up with him a few months later. I will never stoop to that level again. lola
Pyro Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 you should have beaten the snot out of her RIDDLER, that would have taught her a lesson. I hope that you are joking......
luvtoto Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Back when I was 20 yrs old, I got accused of stealing some guy away from a girl. I was just his friend. Duh. She slapped me across the face, and then my best friend got pissed, punched her and broke her nose. Ok, I don't cringe when I think about that. I was just stuck in the middle of that street brawl.
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