lolablue Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 Well after not speaking for 3 months my ex phoned me at work, where he knew he could get a hold of me, he had called my cell and I had not returned calls. (isn't that a hint????) He wants to keep in touch, wants me to call him, I don't want to hear about his life nothing, it hurts too much. Is this selfish of me???? I just can't call him, I need to stay strong. Any suggestions or comments?? lola
agnf666 Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 The only thing I can say, is just don't return his calls or anything. If he is calling your work you need to tell him that you can't accept personal calls anymore and that will end that. Looks like he might be trying to mend things with you in a good way though.
Ruff Ryder Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 I know what you mean. It sounds like he wants something a second chance maybe a time to see if he can get you again... My advise is just leave it he will take a hint. Chill it a bit. Pain is love and both are part of life. You'll be ok.
The write one Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 It's been a minute, chex out my thread in Second Chances, "Am i geting played or a possible second chance" some interesting developments in the last few weeks.
Author lolablue Posted October 26, 2006 Author Posted October 26, 2006 Thanks for the support. I will stay strong and not call back, I will not allow the toxicity back in my life, I deserve better. I am not the type of person to be rude, it's not in my nature, when I told him yesterday that no contact was best he then proceeded to try to sweet talk me, thankfully I can see through him, I cut the conversation short with I have a meeting to go into. I'm just so frustrated and emotional today. I need to go for a jog and get this frustration out. lola
Ruff Ryder Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 Great attitude girl. Do you thing and have fun doing it.
Ruff Ryder Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 You seem all worth the effort babygirl. Knock em dead.
Ruff Ryder Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 Jut have fun life is to short to worrie about that type of thing. Live your life your way and the rest will fall into place.
Author lolablue Posted October 26, 2006 Author Posted October 26, 2006 Absolutely... I completely agree... Thanks again so much for the support, I truly appreciate it. You have a fantastic night mr. ruff... lola
Ruff Ryder Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 Its 1:37am and Im still in my office..... So its as much fun as you can have with your cloths on here. lol Enjoy it girl the world is at your feet do to it as you will.
Author lolablue Posted October 27, 2006 Author Posted October 27, 2006 lol, you made me giggle... Thank you... i will/am enjoying it, I hope your finally asleep now and resting... lola
Ruff Ryder Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Wish full thnking. me sleep why? there are other things to do.
Author lolablue Posted October 27, 2006 Author Posted October 27, 2006 such as? I've always liked the nighttime better... lola
Ruff Ryder Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Well like I said loads of fun that you can have with your cloths on. Tonight Im back in the office its grand but im off to england to live next month. YAY. Night mares? They sound like fun...... What type? Cloths off or on? lol
Author lolablue Posted October 27, 2006 Author Posted October 27, 2006 lol@grand. Yea I hear ya, i'm at the office again right now, but excited about the weekend. England huh? Very cool. R you going there to work? I have my Uncle who lives there, he's so great. Nightmares... yes I've been known to have a few lol. Sometimes with or without clothes ha ha ha. cheers lola
Ruff Ryder Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Yea its for work, nice to get away from here for a while (2 years) Should be cool. Night mares with no cloths sounds like a midget lesbian sex show to me. LOL that is scare yet you still wanna watch. hahahaha Office? What you do?
Author lolablue Posted October 27, 2006 Author Posted October 27, 2006 lol@midget lesbian sex show... yikes on that but yes it would be hard to look away!!! But I do like being scared, I love my horror movies. I work in advertising... I'm a graphic designer, yourself?
Ruff Ryder Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Lesbia sex shows not for me thanks for asking... LOL kidding. Im a actor, more like a stunt man.... Well when brad pitt gets into the shower Im his ass..... So you could say im Brad pitts ass. LOL kidding
Ruff Ryder Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Legs and ass and thats me done and dusted. I do marketing for a couple of large companies. Loads of work but fun.
Author lolablue Posted October 27, 2006 Author Posted October 27, 2006 I always notice a guys hands... It's always a bonus when you enjoy your work, I too am lucky that I enjoy my job, look I'm supposed to be working right now, tsk tsk your distracting me. LOL. lola
Ruff Ryder Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 I could blame you for the exact same thing however I dont point fingers. lol Hands well mine are a little broken, motor bikes also lots of fun cloths on or off, but with them off it can hurt at high speed when yuor a male. lol So your in Canader, hmmmmm cold weather and snow, not my cup of tea.
Author lolablue Posted October 27, 2006 Author Posted October 27, 2006 Motor bike riding, now that is fun... with or without clothes. Yep, Canadian girl here, but no snow here, just cloudy today and not too cold. Thank goodness I'm off to Hawaii in a couple of months though! South Africa... what's it like there today?
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