DanielMadr Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 Being just a little bit dominant, masculine and tall I encounter a lot of girls that are in to BD(SM) sex. I even talked to a girl, that insisted that she hates any kind of foreplay....but she was of the scale obviously. I personally dont like it very much and I dont take it too seriously...only tieing, blindfold and teasing time to time but I feel some girls would like to take it a bit farther. So....Id like to ask you GIRLS...what do you reckon to be the best common doable fantasy? I mean when you would not feel like **** the next day.
BabyPhoenix Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 So....Id like to ask you GIRLS...what do you reckon to be the best common doable fantasy? I mean when you would not feel like **** the next day. I think that totally depends on the girl. And on you. You both need to discuss what you want, and your hard limits. Also, always play with safe words, especially as a beginner. What would you want?
Touche Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 Just curious but what does being dominant, masculine and tall have to do with attracting the kinds of girls that you attract? My husband has those qualities and I don't fit the BD (SM) mold and nor did any of his dates. Also, I've dated many other men who were dominant, masculine and tall and they weren't attracting those women either. Sorry, just had to ask you that. Ok, on to your topic...best common doable fantasy? That's a tough one. Pretty much have done (and do) all I want to do. And the secret ones I DO have would make me feel like *** the next day so I guess it means I don't have any I'd try in real life.
Author DanielMadr Posted October 26, 2006 Author Posted October 26, 2006 I think that totally depends on the girl. And on you. You both need to discuss what you want, and your hard limits. Also, always play with safe words, especially as a beginner. What would you want? Safe words? Can you elaborate? What would I want? Hmmmm. If she is happy Im happy. I have no special pleasure from smacking her bottom or controlling someone But it could be nice if she was sort of naked the whole day and me just making her hot and watching her. Not doing it only in bedroom for couple of hours, doing it whole day if you understand. Special thing I would like to try.....her wearing some sort of vibrator and me having remote control....it could be fun in coffee shop...im bad )
Author DanielMadr Posted October 26, 2006 Author Posted October 26, 2006 Just curious but what does being dominant, masculine and tall have to do with attracting the kinds of girls that you attract? My husband has those qualities and I don't fit the BD (SM) mold and nor did any of his dates. Also, I've dated many other men who were dominant, masculine and tall and they weren't attracting those women either. Sorry, just had to ask you that. Ok, on to your topic...best common doable fantasy? That's a tough one. Pretty much have done (and do) all I want to do. And the secret ones I DO have would make me feel like *** the next day so I guess it means I don't have any I'd try in real life. Why do I attract them? Maybe I am the lucky one tall masculine Maybe they think when Im sort of dominant I could be even more dominant more easily. One think shocks me - they start to indicate their tendencies very early....sometimes gives me creeps. Like 'Hi. Would you go out some time?' 'Aeah, have you seen the movie Marquiz de Sade?' ...which I havent seen btw. Okay. And what would you share with us? Secret ones, huh;) What it could be?
BabyPhoenix Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 Safe words? Can you elaborate? A word that (generally) the submissive says to end play; a word that is used to prevent play from moving from the safe realm to the unsafe / harmful -----> regret the next day . . . . injury. What would I want? Hmmmm. If she is happy Im happy. You don't sound like a Dom. You sound like a sub. I have no special pleasure from smacking her bottom or controlling someone But it could be nice if she was sort of naked the whole day and me just making her hot and watching her. Not doing it only in bedroom for couple of hours, doing it whole day if you understand. Special thing I would like to try.....her wearing some sort of vibrator and me having remote control....it could be fun in coffee shop...im bad ) What you are talking about is not BDSM. This is vanilla sex with a hint of spice.
Author DanielMadr Posted October 26, 2006 Author Posted October 26, 2006 A word that (generally) the submissive says to end play; a word that is used to prevent play from moving from the safe realm to the unsafe / harmful -----> regret the next day . . . . injury. You don't sound like a Dom. You sound like a sub. What you are talking about is not BDSM. This is vanilla sex with a hint of spice. I never said Im some kind of leather clothed Dom. It turns me on when girl is enjoying it. But ofcorse I dont mind receiving:cool: And frankly I dont think that proper Doms enjoy humiliating others if the others dont enjoy it. OK. So when I would like to turn vanilla sex with hint of spice to something more appealing, how would it look like? "On your knees bi@tch" that kind of thing?
Guest Posted October 27, 2006 Posted October 27, 2006 Daniel you need to repost in the above forum. A unusual sex poll has nothing to do with dating.
Author DanielMadr Posted October 29, 2006 Author Posted October 29, 2006 Daniel you need to repost in the above forum. A unusual sex poll has nothing to do with dating. my bad. ...but i am usually doing this while dating:confused:
Touche Posted October 29, 2006 Posted October 29, 2006 my bad. ...but i am usually doing this while dating:confused: That might be your problem!
Author DanielMadr Posted December 18, 2006 Author Posted December 18, 2006 That might be your problem! Doing sex while dating? OMG:D
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