PoorMe Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 He had the A, and I'm a wreck, still......3 months after d-day. We have been married 9 years, and suddenly, I feel like I've fallen out of love with him. I know I've pushed him away trying to push away all of the hurt....did I wait too long to try to put things together with him? Is this normal? Has anyone been at this point and stayed and fallen back in love?
whichwayisup Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 Is he showing you any sort of remorse from his actions? Is his affair over? Do you have children? If so, you might want to go to marriage counselling, give your marriage one last shot before ending it, otherwise someday you might regret not doing so... DO you want to fix your marriage? Or would it be easier to say goodbye, get a divorce and move on. Is he worth giving another chance to make things right?
Guest Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 well...i am not sure which person u are talking about...sounds like one had an affair and has disappeared - so he didn't stay and is obviously not 'in love' as for the other person - sounds they are doing nothing i don't see anything happening that situation - i would think that a simple hello is a start tho
peterparks Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 I call it a phase in marriage. Just remember the guy you first fell in love with. Maybe that'll help.
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