sweetskier Posted October 25, 2006 Posted October 25, 2006 I'm looking for some help out there with this one. I moved here 5 months ago on a 6 month contract. I met a wonderful man 6 years older than me (I'm 24 he's 30). I love him and adore our time together, which is pretty much every day! We have gone on about 5 trips in 4 months that we have been together. I am a virgin and we have crossed that bridge and he respects that. I am now approaching my final month on contract and want to move. He wants to move too but wants us to move together. He wants 100% commitment. I have been committed for 4 months but this 100% thing and moving scares me. I was soo career focused before I met him and since I have realized how much I like being in a relationship. My family doesn't like the idea of me moving with him even if we get a two bedroom place. The whole milk - buying cow thing. I'm not totally sold on the idea. after 4 months. Seems too soon. This is my first real relationship... I just need some feedback....help!!!!!
lovelorcet Posted October 26, 2006 Posted October 26, 2006 You are 24, and you guys have been together for 4 months, you think you are in love.... Well let me tell you this, if you guys move into together then the chances that you will stay a virgin are pretty slim. What is the big deal though? I am so sick of hearing this no sex till marriage stuff as I think so many people have this all messed up. What about no sex till love? This makes much more sense to me and I think is more or less the healthiest way of going about it. Make your own choices regardless of what your family has to say, they are yours to make or mess up, no one else's...
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