Thinking bout ex

[Kevin Kristopher]

Ok so i have a new girlfriend an been broken up with my ex since 2003...i've moved on but for some reason now i find myself thinking about her a lot and Physically shes everything i wanted in a woman now the problem is i have a girlfriend who i dont have much in common wit but she loves me. I havent seen my ex in a while but i have strong sexual desires for my ex.....what do i do? really need help cuz my current girlfriend is great but i just dont kno if i see long term with her...im 24 thanx

[gfto]

The ex is gone. Forget about her. The key is to find a girl who you're interested in. It sounds like you're not very interested in your girlfriend. That's why you're yearing for the ex. The right new girlfriend will quickly cause you to forget about your ex.

[Guest]

on what YOU are thinking relating to your ex and what the situation is. there many be many reasons why someone thinks about an ex - but maybe instead of using the word 'thinking' try and replace it with the word 'wondering' and see if that changes how u view things. at one time or another i have thought about my ex, the ex when i was 19, i think about my brother, friends, family, etc. i think the key here is - to not make assumptions. i will give u a personal example because this post could easily describe my current situation. last winter, the relationship i was in ended [not there is no blame - acceptance] and i have spoken with this person maybe 5 or 6 times since then. a while back i starting seeing someone. we are both totally honest with each other and talk about everything. we keep each other in the loop. yes, i sometimes think about my ex and there are many reasons for that: 1. i wonder if i should say 'hello' to her because we run into each other at various places, and it would be nice. 2. i wonder how she is doing..her job, etc, 3. i wonder if she has healed and how things are.

 

See, thinking or wondering about someone doesn't have to mean...you are wanting them back.