What is the possability of him cheating on me?

[scared and confused]

ok bare with me here ive only been balling for the last 4 hours, I don't know what to do, I think my husband may cheat on me. He just got home from being in Iraq for a year and we have a 10 month old boy, and been married almost 3 years. I went in to our internet's "history" to get a web site i went to the other day and saw membership verification, wondering what it was i clicked on it and it was for a sight called "Adult Friend Finders". He has signed up for it and i don't know how to approach the issue my heart just fell to my toes i mean i thought he was the one i would grow old with and be happy for ever, we don't ever fight we have tons of common interests i don't know what to do don't know what to think don't know how to even approach the situation. I LOVE him to death but i have been screwed over so many times. Can ANYONE PLEASE HELP I'm so afraid of this situation!

[PandorasBox]

I think you should approach it however you feel you need to. Here are some options for you, but no matter what others tell you, you have to do what you feel is best for you.

 

1. You could come right out and ask him about the site. You could be honest and say you saw it in the files. He will either admit to it, or make an excuse for why its in the files. Possibly get pissed off that you were in the history, but if he has nothing to hide then he probably shouldn't get defensive.

 

2. Or you could casually mention you were on the internet and saw a ad on the side of the screen for a place called, "Adult Friend Finder" tell him that you heard it was a site to hook up for sex. Tell him you can't understand why people would do such a thing, or even think about it. Be very casual about this, and watch his reaction. See what he does or says if anything.

 

3. You could lay low with the whole situation and keep and eye on things. Check back and see if this is a site he frequently visits. Just some options there. Hopefully others might have more advice for you. hang in there.

[peterparks]

There is no other way, but to talk to your husband. Just ask him, without passing any judgments.