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I've been dating a separated man for 3 months. He has shared custody of his kids.

 

He has just asked me to move in with him, BUT says it would only work if we don't view it as a permanent relationship thing ie. he thinks moving in together is too quick and too much of a commitment, but loves how we get along, his kids adore me etc etc

 

What the hell am I supposed to make of that?

 

The only thing I can think of is that he was in his relationship with his ex wife for 13 years (they were sorta chucked together), and he doe not really have a clue about how REAL relationships work.

 

IF I moved in, I would have no intentions of telling him how to run his household, or treat his kids, and I'm wondering if this is what he means by not viewing it as permanent?

 

Does anyone have any clues? Thank you.

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